Me (29M) and my partner (28F) constant conflict in a relationship ?
Me’29M’ and my partner’28F’ has been in relationship for 3 years now, but been living together for about 8-10 months only, but since we living together we been fighting constantly about every other day, like it’s been going on non stop since we move in together, it’s frustrating.
She is very detailed oriented, kind of get annoyed very quickly even at smallest things, and when I talk to her about my feelings, she always says I made her angry and I made her feel that way, I don’t feel heard at all, I try my best to avoid fight but she gets more annoyed and says that she won’t react to anything now, she won’t care anything I do and won’t say anything to me, even though I tried to calm her down and try to explain her what I meant it doesn’t work sometimes, I get very frustrated. I don’t feel heard at all, I feel like she doesn’t take accountability for the fight sometimes, I always have to say sorry to her at the end of the fight, even though it’s not my fault, she will say something eventually to prove herself right and me wrong
I don’t know if I have some problems in me or it’s something else, I am really exhausted 😓, I just wanted to take it off my chest thanks for reading