u/Alarming-Fact-5034

Did anybody watch the lifetime movie, a murder between friends. I couldn't believe how amazing Joan Collins looks. She is 93.

Is it just me, or does anybody think that Sidwell May return. The ending for such a big character was just so quick and over with. It's not like him not to fight back. I keep thinking that maybe he has a plan to either escape, or have somebody else help him escape. I just have this feeling that he'll be back. Even though he was evil, I miss his sense of humor and weird comments.

I have been married to the same man for 23 years, but our marriage has been really toxic for the last 16 and a half.. It is so bad, he lives in one part of the house and I live in the other part of the house. We have absolutely no communication other than through text which is usually toxic and horrible. I tried to block his number as much as I can, but we have a business together and a mortgage together, and so on. He is so manipulative cruel toxic, gaslighting. According to him he's never done anything wrong and everything is my fault. I would do anything to be able to just walk away. He refuses to file for divorce. He refuses to buy me out. What can I even do at this point. I'm almost 68. I'm not just going to walk out the door with no financial assets. Yeah I could live off my credit cards until a divorce was final. Each year it just gets worse and worse and worse. I walk on eggshells at all times for the fear that he might hurt me. But most of the abuse is mental abuse. I was diagnosed with depression years ago, so of course everything that happens is blamed on that. He's very cruel and mentally abusive. If I dare ask anything at all if I ask about the cats. If I ask about the business. Doesn't matter what I asked, he is toxic and cruel. Now he started keeping my packages from me that I get from Amazon, and telling me that they're not here when there's a picture of them on the porch. He's an alcoholic, so whenever he gets drunk he's even worse. There's so much more but it would take pages and pages and pages. I feel like I'm totally trapped in purgatory with no way out.

One of my five month old kittens refuses to eat her own dry kitten kibble and will only eat my adult cats urinary prescription dry food. He does eat her kitten wet food throughout the day but sometimes it's very picky on that as well and has to have like toppings put on it I can't remove the urinary food from the floor because my senior cat has eaten it his whole life, in fact I have six cats and they all eat it. The vet said there was nothing wrong with the other cats including the females eating the urinary dry food but I was just wondering since the five month old kitten insist on eating it and still gets her normal wet kitten food. Is that okay?

I had to make a really hard decision to relocate one of my female cats to the lower level of the house where my husband lives.. for the last four and a half years she has relentlessly bullied my two senior female cats to the point that they are so scared to even touch the floor. They're scared to go in their litter box. I tried to put a stop to this for years but my husband just kept telling me they have to learn to stick up for themselves. Deal with it. I'm tired of hearing about it. I tried everything to make them feel free or I tried relocating the litter boxes putting them in more secure hidden spaces so they could go in them comfortably, but the bully always found a way to sneak up on them. She would hide under the bed in the hunting mode so she could dart out at them when they least expect it she would sit in between the hallway and the bedroom in the hunting mode to do the same thing. This went on for a long time, finally I couldn't take it no more when I went in and saw that one of the senior girls had pooped on the dresser and I felt bad because I actually disciplined her but it was because she was too scared to go in a litter box. She's done this before. She's pooped out on the catio.... The One Senior cat has basically had no sense of freedom for like the last four and a half years. The other one that's been bullied for a year. She holds it for 24 hours before she pees and tries to wait for the bully to go to sleep and then uses the litter box. So I finally just couldn't take it anymore and I took the bully cat which she's younger and smaller and I relocated her down to the basement where there are other cats down there. There's also a catio, bedding food litter boxes etc. It's a nice basement. Meanwhile my husband called me a monster and said it was no worse than throwing her in a pound. So I have literally cried for 3 days because she's also been up on the stairs crying and carrying on. But on a plus note, my two senior girls after all this time are finally feeling a little sense of freedom and actually feeling like they can walk on the floor and walk out to the catio without being in fear. They're still constantly looking under the bed, looking over their shoulder, doubtful to go in the litter box.. this was a very hard decision for me. I was just at my wit's end. I didn't rehome the bully or throw her in a shelter, I basically relocated her down to a different level of the house with someone that's not a stranger someone that will care for her, but she doesn't like the other cats and he's just telling me that she's miserable and he doesn't agree with my decision. I talked to behavior specialists and was told to separate them and that it should have been done a long time ago. So I don't see where I had any other options other than to rehome her. I'm really struggling with this. I've cried for 3 days thinking of the other one down in the basement being taken away from the only home she's ever known. She's still in the same home, she's just downstairs, but I felt that I had to protect my senior cats from a life of relentless bullying, and giving them a better life in their senior years. Your comments would be appreciated or advice. Please be kind I've cried for 3 days.