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after my rewatch of the show, i do believe that in some way hazel e is a victim. like ik she was delusional over berg, but instead of doing the grown man thing like telling her straight up you’re not INTERESTED & stop having sex with her, then maybe she wouldn’t have been so crazy about him. berg was a disgusting pos & i can’t believe he has a successful producer career. then to turn around and have your “friend” go behind your back and date him and then play you out in public?!?!? i would tweak if i was hazel. people are not being emotionally honest and that’s what is so sad. then your other best friend kissed him in the studio (i love teairra but that was nasty work) how would you really feel?!

i can agree that she should’ve handled it better ie therapy & getting off the show, but when you making money off the show, people treated you dirty, at some point, you’re going to feel like you want your get back. now hazel ain’t so saint. i think she’s a tired pick me & a colorist imo, but there’s a lot of factors to her. on paper she’s the prototype, but people treat her like dog 💩 and she’s supposed to be ok with that? no. & THEN! even when you are the “prototype” & you don’t actually have the “look” , i can understand why she’s confused on why berg treated her that way? idk. & she’s from cali for crying out loud. imagine what she went thru fr. she was on national syndicated show being ridiculed for her looks, I’m sorry. i get her. i would want revenge and would want to see masika get her lashings. me now, probably wouldn’t do that. but i understand hazel. i hope she’s healing.

i hope every women on the show is healed or get to that place. especially Hazel & teairra. i feel so sorry for them. they lived in Hollywood. Like the land of the fake. i can only imagine. sorry if i talked too much.

why is this pervert on the show? i understand it was the height of the millennium tour when they filmed season 6, but we should’ve got more behind the scenes drama with fizz and b2k. i don’t care about that nasty dude that married a 19 year old. WHY IS HE HERE???? every time he comes on the screen i skip them scenes soooo fast. go home roger.

& where tf is teairra????? WHERE IS TEAIRRA MARI???

she is so fake and phony. she’s nobody’s friend. i didn’t like her that much when i was a kid, and now i really don’t care for her now. she’s too immature and messy. like yeah you may know how to fight, but you can’t beat everybody. marcus all he do is enable the behavior. he scared of her it looks like.

currently watching the best franchise ever 😂😂.

I can’t help but to wonder what happened with their friendship. were they only tv friends? bc that’s unfortunate they made a great shady team lmaooo. currently watching season 4 and they had a podcast together. the way they was reading nikki baby and Alexis skyy was funny af. they did not hold back 😂 THAT’S what you call a “reasonably shady” podcast (if you watch real housewives of potomac yk what I’m talking about) they should’ve kept that podcast going and kept that money flowing in! what a travesty. i hope they’re still friends bc they were funny as hell.

i just finished watching a scene on season 3 episode 7. teairra was sitting down with brian michael cox & they were talking about her career. one thing that made me upset watching it was that she was told that la Reid said he regretted not prioritizing rihanna over her. like you can’t multitask and prioritize both? then to find out that she was signed by jay z at 16 & THEN got dropped a year later. what was she supposed to do with life after that if all she knows is music/singing?? that’s jacked up to discard someone’s dream like that. i guess bc her first album didn’t do that well idk.

i literally been playing “sponsor” OUT this week & that was a bop. a very fun song. she should’ve had WAY MORE MOMENTUM after releasing “sponsor”. it was fresh at the time, it made you dance, it was fun & the “bababyebye” part is so tea! nobody wanted to give teairra a chance & i don’t get that. she was the total package. if white pop stars can still find a lane & career for themselves after being erratic or having drug problems, why couldn’t they work with tt & her drinking & anger? that’s not fair.

teairra was failed by the men in this industry. jay z & def jam didn’t do teairra justice & just threw her away. then you got ray j disrespecting her and discard her for a blasian even himself don’t respect (i really think that Ray j married her bc he’s a colorist & thought “foreign” was better). THEN i just read how ppl believe that tt was the jane doe in one of diddy’s court cases. ain’t NO telling what she seen and dealt with when it comes to diddy. it’s just a sad case all around. she deserves so much more still to this day. then for 50 cent to release that revenge tape on her was wack & he probably knows what happened to her in her career. it makes me so sad that she was never considered. i hate when beautiful women are treated poorly bc i automatically think they want to humble her.

i hope tt is somewhere resting & happy & making money the legal way. i hope she’s not drinking anymore. i want to give her a hug!

ok. i’m the type to type a long forum on reddit, so if you don’t like that please keep scrolling.

i just finished lhhh season one. i hate all of the men on the show they are very …. predatory towards women. they talk to the women in their lives like trash. fizz in a relationship tryna pressure a 25 yr old Amanda to be a mother to his son. he talks to moniece like trash like she’s unfit, but fizz still living with his momma after being in a moderately successful boy band 😂 he talks to women like he’s better than them.

omarion keeps talking to apryl like she needs to listen to him & his momma only. he has a very “it’s my way or the highway” type attitude it’s not cute. always tryna portray as the good guy when he’s really passive with apryl. he always telling someone to be quiet i feel like he got short man syndrome. just like berg! i see why they didn’t last. he’s a piece of work!

berg is SO distasteful. so disrespectful. beating on masika at the reunion drunk & high. he played with hazel’s mind although she contributed to it. he’s very creepy trying to hook up with teairra & then LIED saying he slept with her saying she gave him top in back alley? he’s very immature & an avid abuser. he said he used to work with diddy i can only imagine what he does behind closed doors. he shouldn’t even have a successful career as “hitmaka” no women should be working with him in the industry! i hope tink is still not with him.

ray j … the scum of the earth. he should’ve definitely been stopped a long time ago. i guess people thought ray j was “charming” and cute when he’s really a narc who can wiggle himself out of things. that’s why he’s out of control right now. him and princess love deserve each other. this is her karma for how she treated tt. there were always signs of ray having a drinking problem and to see him for who is TODAY is kinda sad but not surprising. the women in his life enables his behavior like brandy and tt. tt sill tried to justify his behavior by saying “she’s a butthole just like him” & it’s like no girl y’all are not the same. ray j will never change. he thinks he’s above reproach. he’s a narcissist and he will never learn to love somebody correctly. people kept awarding his bad behaviors from the beginning and now he’s a drug addict. addicted to fame and will do anything for it. it’s sad but it’s what he deserves :) don’t be a 🍆 to women!

soulja boy is …. I don’t even wanna talk about him he just gives young and dumb. still act the same he another one who’s never gonna change. he still young & dumb at 36 years old i just can’t! 😂😂

i will come back and talk about the women too. i just hate the men right now. they put those women thru so much. abuse, addiction, insecurity, longing, desperation. it makes me sad bc all of those women are victims. even dumb dumb princess. and those men could care less how they made a women feel. all of them.

i started watching this show from the beginning. chile i am in for a wild ride. i’ll come back when i’m done watching the season 😂😂😂 ooh i cannot stand ray j what a butt hole.

they messed up with not bringing back marge, jen aydin, & jackie back to the show. idc what teresa wanted, marge should’ve been back !!! she’s anti Teresa & we don’t need everybody kissing her dumb behind!

jen aydin was a great villain. she was funny, quick witted and knew how to antagonize. we needed jackie back after knowing she was behind the plot with louie & teresa. is she still cool with teresa? like what is her relationship with the women now? what is her relationship with marge now that she exposed her? the finale was so TEA 😂😂

it should’ve been teresa, melissa, dolores (snooze fest 🙄), jen, marge, & jackie & have jen fessler as a friend of. trying to appease teresa is rhonj’s downfall i stg. idk why I feel like she pulled the strings for the cast to be the way it is now, but i just do. we should know the aftermath after that crazy dinner! i feel like bravo (& Teresa idc what y’all gotta say about it) messed it up for season 15. lemme know you guys thoughts about it!

Hell no george is not vindicated! like cynthia and drew please! they only said that bc they don’t like shamea & with angela … she got caught in a lie and THEN double down on it? 😂 but watch how yall defend her. cynthia… shut up and find a clue.

i had to watch this special bc one, we don’t have no new episode this week & plus I think i’m going thru some type of sadness/depression today. what better way to make myself feel better than to watch this show? i need some comic relief i woke up not feeling good & sad.

sidebar: i’m coming back with some updates about this show lmaoo gosh i need a laugh man.

now I’ve watched all seasons of rhoa & i think it’s safe to say that i am a fan. i have known cynthia to be a flip flopper since season 3. idk why, but this season her flip flopping ways is starting to trigger and piss me off. she is a FOLLOWER to the MAX. she wanna follow behind porsha dumb self after all the things she said about porsha and kicked her in her q’chi.

for her to be offended about angela being called Sasquatch is laughable to me. cynthia has heard worst. she heard porsha tell kenya to “tuck her penis” at the season 8 reunion, she has heard people referred to nene as moose even her bestie Kenya at the time called nene a moose. she has heard drew ON THIS SAME SEASON call Kelli “misproportioned” !!! this show is built on shade and humor, but it also has history of transphobia & homophobia as well. she is so offended that shamea called angela “big foot” & “Sasquatch” and she’s being hypocritical.

it’s the cool thing to be on porsha’s team & be friends with her that anything that shamea does is an issue. i want Cynthia to stop tone policing shamea if she’s not gonna do it for drew & angela. it’s showing her bias. she’s not a true matriarch of the show no matter how much y’all try to slice it or dice it. like get over it, Cynthia. she wasn’t talking about every tall woman with big feet & calling them big foot. that shade was directed to one person. can’t stand no flip flopper. i see why y’all wanted her gone her earlier seasons. she ain’t got no backbone.

watching season 5 episode one. todd & kandi were so freaking cute aw. you can tell Todd really was digging kandi. couldn’t stop smiling and laughing. they were really cute. it’s ashame how todd & kandi didn’t work out in the end. why do y’all think they actually divorced? 👀