u/AltruisticCurrent576

Hi, y’all.

My son is half Asian and his hair is extremely thick, coarse, and stick straight. He also sweats a lot and very easily so whenever I style his hair he either sweats it out or it loses its hold within an hour or so. He’s hitting the age where he’s starting to care about his looks and I need product suggestions that will actually hold his hair in place. My husband and I are both white. I’ve tried the white people products my husband owns on my son’s hair with no success, but don’t know what to try beyond that that won’t cost a lot of money. Help? Thanks!

I’m very upset. I want to vent to someone that understands. I struggled with PGAD a few years ago. Along with spontaneous orgasms I had constant arousal, but was left unsatisfied by an orgasm and always wanting more. It took a lot of work and a long time to move past it. I stopped masturbating and tried to ignore the feelings and ultimately it did help a lot and I wasn’t struggling anymore. I’ve had one continuous symptom that I’ve assumed was related, but other than that I actually felt normal. Last fall I got pregnant and my complications started around 8 weeks. My husband and I had to stop having sex as a result. I’m nearly 2 months postpartum now and with the 6 weeks wait after giving birth that means in the last year my husband and I have only had sex a handful of times. I was recently cleared to have sex again so, we have, and now I feel like I’m back at square one with PGAD. I want sex all the time. I’m constantly aroused again. I’m not satisfied by orgasms, but make myself come multiple times in hopes that one of them will do the trick. It never does. When I struggled with this before it was also hard on my marriage, in large part because my husband felt that my attraction to him was PGAD related as opposed to wanting him specifically. I don’t want to go back to that. He says he has a high libido, but it’s nothing like mine. I’m so frustrated with my body. I don’t want to do this again.