i am living in filth
going to try to be a little vague for the sake of anonymity, but i 20f just moved into a new apartment. one person was already living here, and me and two others are new to the unit. when i walked in, i was shocked. there was a sink full of dirty dishes, the counter was covered in some sticky substance and MORE dishes, the floor was covered in crumbs, the person living there had shoes EVERYWHERE, etc. the trash was full, but the fridge was the worst. filled to the brim and has strange brown sludge on a lot of the shelving. (i would include photos, but i want to maintain privacy haha) i am a clean freak. i have diagnosed ocd, and a lot of my behaviors revolve around cleanliness and dirty things not touching clean things. i am reasonable though, but this was TRULY unreasonable. i have since talked a bit to the other two that are new, and they are (thank GOD) in agreement about how bad it is. so essentially, two things.
how do we go about broaching the subject? i already sent a text about wanting to set a chore chart, but i don’t want to come on too strong when we JUST met.
does anyone have suggestions for how to deep clean a fridge? quite honestly, i won’t even feel comfortable if she cleans it. i need to buy groceries but the fridge is absolutely disgusting and i cannot in good conscience put anything in there right now.
thank you in advance! all advice is appreciated :)