i couldn’t feel it through his pants?
so i (22F) went on a first date with a guy (22M) last night and we hit it off pretty well and after like a 6 hour date we ended up kissing in his car. he initiated the kiss and asked for me to get on top of him in the drivers seat and i proposed we get in the backseat. he was on top of me in the back and we were mostly just dry humping and he was kissing me, my neck, my chest. he seemed really into it and didn’t want to stop. i was having a really good time. we both agreed we weren’t gonna have sex cause we didn’t feel comfortable yet but we were having fun just kissing. but i couldn’t feel anything in his pants? in the past when i’ve made out with guys with them on top of me, and we were dry humping i could always feel their boner. i’ve just been overthinking this cause do you think it was anxiety or he just wasn’t attracted to me? he asked to see me again in a few days and he literally initiated the kiss sooooo ughhh. is this normal or like was he just not turned on like idk. i’m worried if or when we do have sex he won’t be hard