Closure after NC
F27 and NC for nearly 2 years now with my mom and her side of the family. My mom didn't really reach out after I went NC with her - one of the only (and the last) messages she sent me was 1 year ago where she asked to see me. After I responded and asked if she could please tell me what she would like to discuss with me, she never responded, and that was that. It was painful, because I often fantasized about her apologizing and putting in the work to make things right. I am still in the process of accepting that that will most likely never happen. The thing I struggle with the most in this is finding a sense of closure for myself. It almost feels like I need to confront her one last time to close this chapter for good, but we all know how that ends with BPD parents. It might not be worth the immense stress that comes with it, and the risk of getting sucked into the abuse again. What did you do that helped you to get some closure and acceptance?