u/AngelVampKAWAII

I love doing my own laundry and taking care of my clothes it's calming for me I love the process of it.

Did you experienced that when someone doesn't like you or a group of people doesn't like you and you can feel it even if they don't say it but you can't escape it like when it's in a work setting or home. Because you don't have means or are too scared to leave. In the past I been in a group home where I could feel the staff didn't like me and kept saying comments about my face often...

Autistic women must stick together because patriarchy and autistic men can be our biggest haters.

The Double Standard of Expectations

A lot of the complaints from these men regarding neurotypical women vs. autistic women come down to rigid, often unrealistic expectations:

Seeking the "Idealized" Partner: Some autistic men complain about neurotypical women because they desire a partner who perfectly navigates the social world for them, acting as a bridge to society.

Rejecting the Reality: When they encounter an autistic woman who also has a strict routine, doesn't like meeting new people, and prefers quiet parallel existence, they realize she cannot or will not change her life to manage theirs. Instead of valuing the shared neurodivergence, they get frustrated because it doesn't fit their specific blueprint of a partner.