u/Angel_Delighted

Hi! i’m 20F from the UK and i’m looking for some perfume recommendations? I’ve had some ideas of scents i’d like but i can never seem to find any that really appeal to me!

i thought i’d come here and group a bunch of scents i like and maybe someone can help !! :). I feel like im quite a bright person, i really like super sweet stuff!

list of scents:
- preferably sweet and fruity
-PEACH!!! (my favourite!!)
- crispy apple (not autumnal)
- a sweet, bright floral
- a milky sweet vanilla
- fresh strawberries
-a romantic fantasy type of scent

if anyone has any ideas for any of these it would be greatly appreciated! thank u!<3

Hi guys, i need to know if im crazy here.

I F(20) am currently at uni but am home for the summer. Recently i was clearing my mums phone so we could sell it and found out she and her ex were messaging asking to be together.

For context, my mum was with him when she was deep in her alcoholism, now she’s 13 months sober. He would encourage her to drink and then at 17/18 I would have to handle her violent outbursts, they would argue a lot and it used to scare me. For reference this man is 6’2. Me and him also never used to get on, he was very conservative and he used to shout in my face a lot, which, because of my mums alcoholism and the fact it would cause her to get violent really used to trigger me to the point of laying on my bathroom floor and sobbing because i couldn’t breathe.

I’m really scared he’s going to get her back into her drinking, alongside that, find his way back into our family. I feel like that would cause me to have to choose between working for independence in time to move out by next summer so that i can cut contact(the job market sucks rn, i’ve been applying to everything but barely getting responses) or having to potentially see my mum spiral back into her old habits.

I was planning to have a conversation with her today, but i just don’t know what to do. I guess this is kinda a vent post and also asking for advice? She’s just come so far and i’d hate to see that be futile.

My mums just a woman that needs to be loved, you know? She bases all of her worth on men who want to be with her, which has led her to choosing them over her kids numerous times and I just don’t know what to do anymore. I don’t want her to date him/see him, but i dont want to seem like i’m being controlling. i just don’t know what to do i guess.

Thanks!