u/Anna_notsopretty

I am someone who lacks attention. It is not even about cell phones..social media. If my phone is not near me...I can stare at wall blank thought or maybe full of thoughts and get no work done..but If I am interested in work I can do that for whole day...hyperactive basically. And This behavior of me interrupt in my studies. I want to study with focus but I can't help it. I crave interesting ways of study that actually make me remember what I've studied. I can't stay on one method for long and I crave changes atleast weekly 😭😭...I get bored easily. Its like my Brain is veryyyyy hungry and it want to have some DOPAMINEEEEEE....plus my subject are theoretical soo soooo....it is very boring to read books...though I've completed them..but it was hard😭😭😭

Suggest me some study methods that will help me generate interest in any subject....it should be creative and really helpful. Writing methods, reading , learning every kindddd....

Pleaseeeeeee help😭😭😭

My best friend and me are together for like 16 17 years. And I feel that our friendship is now one sided since she came in relationship. I understand she might not have time but all I do is ask for basic reciprocity and clarity...bcz it hurts to tell her to do something for me and seeing her doing it for someone else (other friends) effortlessly.

I stopped talking to her for days because I wanted break from what I was feeling lately...days later she kept sending me reels instead of actually communicating what happened..

So, I decided to keep the ego aside and tell her about what I was feeling. She said "U think my pov is wrong" and I said "U think only your pov is right and u can't handle other perspective"

She said I need moral support from u I dont expect logic(She was going through break up and I was giving MORAL SUPPORT to her ). I said I can't keep someone in dark and u must know the reality and other perspectives...conversation goes on...

she said u say sorry I say sorry lets finish this please...but it sounded like she juss wanted to end the convo (

Plus: she mentioned thing that was already sorted between us..) I said why would u say that??...she said it was just an example...I was like 🫠💔okayy

I said sorry she said sorry but it felt very shallow no responsibility no accounts and I've shared all this with her in past..and I usually let go...but cant this time...At last she said let's not fight for dumb reasons again...My mind know this was not intentional but my heart said that telling you about what and how YOU made me feel is

dumb!???

Left it on seen and haven't talked to her since then..she still send me reels on insta...but I feel peace when I am not talking to her...and I feel this is my guilty pleasure

I am anxious and my boyfriend is avoidant. I get it I understand....But genuinely asking what can I do or some words or sentences that won't feel VERY BIG and I really want to understand Avoidant's perspective like what do u wish in relationship?

What can I do for me and for him??????

I wont lie sometimes it is exhausting for me too..but I love him🥲