Do these two colours (marked with the black dot) seem like bluey and bingo colours? Picture probably isn’t true colour, the colours are Benjamin Moore blue whale and golden archway! Finally getting to do my 2 year old son’s room bluey and I think I picked pretty good! Has anyone done a bluey room and know of other paint colours that were a good match?
So back in February, my bf got custody of his daughter, when social workers showed up at the moms house to remove the kids. He was told he can supervise visits with the mom, but it has to be him supervising, and he doesn’t HAVE to let the kid go with anyone if he doesn’t feel comfortable with that(the moms whole family is chaos).
Since we’ve had SD full time, her mom never reaches out, ignores SD calls(she’s 6 but has a kids messenger)
Last night I received a msg from the moms friend, saying the mom is living with her and she’s clean and sober now and wants to spend time with SD. The friend said she would be the one supervising and such. I replied back with that’s not how it works, atleast not in this case. We were told it HAS to be the kids father supervising, and it is up to him if he feels comfortable letting her stay with others, and if he isn’t comfortable that’s absolutely fine. Immediate flipping out saying “we are calling social workers tomorrow, it’s up to them, you’ll regret this” all that junk🤦🏽♀️
I also said in messages that the mom has always been more than welcome to come here to see her kid. And to please stop messaging me about this. I’m tired of being in the middle of the drama. The decisions aren’t up to me. Reach out to her dad. There’s no reason why her mom can’t call or message her dad to discuss this. Not get her friend to message me. The last message I sent before I blocked the friend was “* kids dad* said to tell her mom to call him tomorrow to discuss this”. And he never received a call or text or anything. It’s not up to us to reach out and beg her to come see her child. If she truly is clean then she has to prove that to us and show she will be consistent, not just pop in and out when it’s convenient for her and traumatize her kid even more. It’s so sad. She loves to say “they won’t let me see her” when in reality she doesn’t even try to see her, or expects us to drop her off in a town an hour away with people we don’t know!! Which also goes against the agreement as it clearly states dad is to be the one to supervise, not anyone else.
Idk I’m just so sick of the drama. I’ve tried so hard to help this girl(the mom) as much as possible and be there for her but she just turns on me and tries to make me look awful.