u/Another_olive

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23F [F4A] #Online — Friendless and lonely person still searching for people to talk to

Hi, me again. My name isn't Olive but that's what people call me even if I tell them not to. It's literally just a username, but just call me that since I won't give you my actual name over the internet. My motivation for making this post is because I have no friends. I feel very lonely. But I am a really boring person because I have awful conversational skills and I don't have many hobbies and they aren't that interesting.

I am from Arizona. I am very far left-leaning. INFP. 420 friendly. I don't go out because I don't have a reason to and it's way too hot outside. I can't drive so I can't just go wherever the wind takes me to meet people and I don't live in a city where there are more opportunities to interact with people. I am not in school or working right now. I am currently studying for my GED math test. If that bothers you for some reason then just don't message me, ok? I do have plans for life after this but right now I am not really doing anything. Most of my time is spent rotting in bed and studying for my GED math test.

My current hobbies are:

Procrastinating my hobbies 😐

Language learning. I am currently learning Latin American Spanish and I have a plan to learn Welsh after I reach a comfortable level in Spanish. I'm only focusing on Spanish right now.

Learning how to play the drums. I don't have a drum kit and I can't afford lessons. I'm just following tutorials on youtube on how to learn without a kit and just hoping for the best. I am also trying to understand sheet music too. 🫩

Reading. Mostly fantasy/sci-fi and some dc comics. I'm not well versed in the comic book world though because they're not really accessible to me. The Hunger Games series is my favorite. I've read all current books in the series.

Listening to music. I don't really care about genres. Whatever hits my ear right, I'll listen to it. I like Mitski, Florence+The Machine, Lady Gaga, Kendrick, Sleep Token, Killswitch Engage, Fit For An Autopsy, Slipknot, Lana Del Rey. Can't list all of them.

Bad news: I don't play video games, I don't watch sports, I don't watch anime, and I haven't seen the most popular tv shows of all time. Sorry.

What I am looking for: I *would* like to make friends but no pressure. Be a decent person. Do not be a bigot. I hate people that are racist, xenophobic, sexist, homophobic, transphobic, etc.

If you message me, please include your A/S/L. I don't know what we would talk about. Maybe just message each other about whatever. I don't care where you're from. I'm just looking for someone to talk to. Like I said before, I've no conversational skills and it’s completely fair if you don't want to message someone like this. So just ignore this post. Don't message me if you're not ok with this.

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u/Another_olive — 3 hours ago

[23/F] I am lonely and I have no friends so I am in search for an e-pal

Hi, me again. My name isn't Olive but that's what people call me even if I tell them not to. It's literally just a username, but just call me that since I won't give you my actual name over the internet. My motivation for making this post is because I have no friends. I feel very lonely. But I am a really boring person because I have awful conversational skills and I don't have many hobbies and they aren't that interesting.

I am from Arizona. I am very far left-leaning. INFP. I don't go out because I don't have a reason to and it's way too hot outside. I can't drive so I can't just go wherever the wind takes me to meet people and I don't live in a city where there are more opportunities to interact with people. I am not in school or working right now. I am currently studying for my GED Math test. If that bothers you for some reason then just don't message me, ok? I do have plans for life after this but right now I am not really doing anything. Most of my time is spent rotting in bed and studying for my GED math test.

My current hobbies are:

Procrastinating my hobbies 😐

Language learning. I am currently learning Latin American Spanish and I have a plan to learn Welsh and then French after I reach a comfortable level in Spanish. I'm only focusing on Spanish right now.

Learning how to play the drums. I don't have a drum kit and I can't afford lessons. I'm just following tutorials on youtube on how to learn without a kit and just hoping for the best. I am also trying to understand sheet music too. 🫩

Reading. Mostly fantasy/sci-fi and some dc comics. I'm not well versed in the comic book world though because they're not really accessible to me. The Hunger Games series is my favorite. I've read all current books in the series.

Listening to music. I don't really care about genres. Whatever hits my ear right, I'll listen to it. I like Mitski, Florence+The Machine, Lady Gaga, Kendrick, Sleep Token, Killswitch Engage, Fit For An Autopsy, Slipknot, Lana Del Rey. Can't list all of them.

Bad news: I don't play video games, I don't watch sports, I don't watch anime, and I haven't seen the most popular tv shows of all time. Sorry.

What I am looking for: I *would* like to make long-term friends but no pressure. Be a decent person. Do not be a bigot. I hate people that are racist, xenophobic, sexist, homophobic, transphobic, etc.

If you message me, please include your A/S/L. I don't know what we would talk about. Maybe just message each other about whatever. I don't care where you're from. I'm just looking for someone to talk to. Like I said before, I've no conversational skills and it’s completely fair if you don't want to message someone like this. So just ignore this post. Don't message me if you're not ok with this.

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u/Another_olive — 4 hours ago
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23F [F4A] #Online — I'm lonely and I have no friends.

Hi, me again. My name isn't Olive but that's what people call me even if I tell them not to. It's literally just a username, but just call me that since I won't give you my actual name over the internet. My motivation for making this post is because I have no friends. I feel very lonely. But I am a really boring person because I have awful conversational skills and I don't have many hobbies and they aren't that interesting.

I am from Arizona. I am very far left-leaning. INFP. 420 friendly. I don't go out because I don't have a reason to and it's way too hot outside. I can't drive so I can't just go wherever the wind takes me to meet people and I don't live in a city where there are more opportunities to interact with people. I am not in school or working right now. I am currently studying for my GED test. If that bothers you for some reason then just don't message me, ok? I do have plans for life after this but right now I am not really doing anything. Most of my time is spent rotting in bed.

My current hobbies are:

Procrastinating my hobbies 😐

Language learning. I am currently learning Latin American Spanish and I have a plan to learn Welsh and then French after I reach a comfortable level in Spanish. I'm only focusing on Spanish right now.

Learning how to play the drums. I don't have a drum kit and I can't afford lessons. I'm just following tutorials on youtube on how to learn without a kit and just hoping for the best. I am also trying to understand sheet music too. 🫩

Reading. Mostly fantasy/sci-fi and some dc comics. I'm not well versed in the comic book world though because they're not really accessible to me. The Hunger Games series is my favorite. I've read all current books in the series.

Listening to music. I don't really care about genres. Whatever hits my ear right, I'll listen to it. I like Mitski, Florence+The Machine, Lady Gaga, Kendrick, Sleep Token, Killswitch Engage, Fit For An Autopsy, Slipknot, Lana Del Rey. Can't list all of them.

Bad news: I don't play video games, I don't watch sports, I don't watch anime, and I haven't seen the most popular tv shows of all time. Sorry.

What I am looking for: I *would* like to make friends but no pressure. Be a decent person. Do not be a bigot. I hate people that are racist, xenophobic, sexist, homophobic, transphobic, etc.

I don't know what we would talk about. Maybe just message each other about whatever. I don't care where you're from. I'm just looking for someone to talk to. Like I said before, I've no conversational skills and it’s completely fair if you don't want to message someone like this. So just ignore this post. Don't message me if you're not ok with this.

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u/Another_olive — 2 days ago

[23/F] Taciturn person still searching for an e-pal

Hi. My name isn't Olive but that's what people call me even if I tell them not to. It's literally just a username, but just call me that since I won't give you my actual name over the internet. My motivation for making this post is because I have no friends or anyone to talk to. I feel very lonely. But I am a really boring person because I have awful conversational skills and I don't have many hobbies and they aren't that interesting.

I am from Arizona. I am very far left-leaning. INFP. I don't go out because I don't have a reason to and it's way too hot outside. I can't drive so I can't just go wherever the wind takes me to meet people and I don't live in a city where there are more opportunities to interact with people. I am not in school or working right now. I am currently studying for my GED test. If that bothers you for some reason then just don't message me, ok? I do have plans for life after this but right now I am not really doing anything. Most of my time is spent rotting in bed.

My current hobbies are:

Procrastinating my hobbies 😐

Language learning. I am currently learning Latin American Spanish and I have a plan to learn Welsh and then French after I reach a comfortable level in Spanish. I'm only focusing on Spanish right now.

Learning how to play the drums. I don't have a drum kit and I can't afford lessons. I'm just following tutorials on youtube on how to learn without a kit and just hoping for the best. I am also trying to understand sheet music too. 🫩

Reading. Mostly fantasy/sci-fi and some dc comics. I'm not well versed in the comic book world though because they're not really accessible to me. The Hunger Games series is my favorite. I've read all current books in the series.

Listening to music. I don't really care about genres. Whatever hits my ear right, I'll listen to it. I like Mitski, Florence+The Machine, Lady Gaga, Kendrick, Sleep Token, Killswitch Engage, Fit For An Autopsy, Slipknot, Lana Del Rey. Can't list all of them.

Bad news: I don't play video games, I don't watch sports, I don't watch anime, and I haven't seen the most popular tv shows of all time. Sorry.

What I am looking for: I *would* like a long term e-pal but no pressure. Be a decent person. Do not be a bigot. I don't really know what I'm looking for in a penpal. Maybe just message each other about whatever. I don't care where you're from. I'm just looking for someone to talk to. Like I said before, I've no conversational skills and it’s completely fair if you don't want to message someone like this. So just ignore this post and don't message me if you're not ok with this.

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u/Another_olive — 2 days ago
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23F [F4A] #Online — Lonely person still looking for someone who can carry the conversation

Please read very carefully and all the way through. (Or don't. I know half of you won't. I'm just sick and tired of people asking me questions that I already answered in my post.) Please include your ASL when you message me please. (A lot of you can't do this basic thing either)

I am from Arizona. I am very far left-leaning. I suck at ice breakers. I suck at talking to people in general because I genuinely don't know what to say. I'm not in school or working right now. I'm studying for my GED test (If this bothers you, just don't message me then. Okay?). I do have life plans for later but right now I don't have any reason for going out. I can't drive on my own so I can't just go out to wherever I want and just go wherever the wind takes me.

I would like physical friends. When I say "physical" I mean friends I can meet up with in real life rather than over the screen. The issue here is that I'm scared to do that because I'm scared of people's true motivations on here. Now I could go out and join clubs/activities but most of those things come at a price and I don't live in a city where there are more opportunities to do those kinds of things. Also it's too hot to go outside right now.

I mostly stay in my room and just rot in bed. I watch youtube videos and listen to music and something for background noise. I'm trying to not be so addicted to my phone or at least do something productive with it. I just feel really empty and bored most days. I feel like I'm losing motivation.

Languages: English, Spanish (Still learning. A1-A2 level.), and Welsh (Going to learn AFTER Spanish.)

Reading. Mostly fantasy/sci-fi and some dc comics. I'm not well versed in the comic book world though because they're not really accessible to me. The Hunger Games series is my favorite.

Drums. I don't have a kit. Just a practice pad. I keep telling myself I'm going to practice more but I think I'll wait for actual lessons I can't get.

Music: Mitski, Florence+The Machine, Lady Gaga, Kendrick, Sleep Token, Killswitch Engage, Fit For An Autopsy, Slipknot, Lana Del Rey.. Can't list all of them. I would like some album recommendations.

TV shows: Modern Family, George Lopez, That 70s Show, School Spirits, IASIP, Moral Orel, Jersey Shore and I like horror movies mostly. But I hate cinephiles/film buffs.

I do have a hard time expressing my thoughts and feelings, even in text. I get overwhelmed and too deep in my thoughts and sometimes shut down. So to whoever messages me, I hope you can carry the conversation. It's ok if you don't want that on you, so only message me if you're ok with that. I'm specifically looking for those who can. That's the title of this post. 420 friendly. I don't play games or watch anime and I haven't watched most of the most popular tv shows of all time so please don't ask me about these things. I know nothing about them ‼️ I'm not into most "nerdy" things, at least not in the way most people are on here. I don't do voice chat or anything like that. Just want to text. I really just want someone to carry the conversation. I really mean it because I can't. I don't know how to respond to things or how to respond "the right way" or how people want me to respond and people think I'm ignoring them or being rude when I'm not. I just don't know what to say.

I hate people that are racist, xenophobic, sexist, homophobic, transphobic, etc. Judgemental/rude for no reason people. All I ask is that you be a decent person and give a little intro about yourself.

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u/Another_olive — 4 days ago

[23/F] Looking for someone to e-mail.

EDIT: Not email. Messaging. I can't edit the title.

EDIT #2: Half of the questions you all asked me in dms, I literally answered in this post....Also I DON'T PLAY VIDEO GAMES OR WATCH ANIME SO NO I CANT PLAY ANYTHING WITH YOU

Warning before anyone messages me: I am a very boring person. I don't do anything. I am not in school or working right now. I don't have any friends. I am 23 years old. I am from the USA. I am looking for someone to send messages with. I don't have great conversational skills and I'm not great at interacting with others. I just feel very lonely.

I tried looking for a penpal a few years ago but I didn't have much luck. I've never posted here so I hope I'm doing this right. I don't have many interests. I am self-confined to my room watching random youtube videos for background noise, bed rotting, and watching the same tv shows I've seen thousands of times.

I like learning languages. I'm currently learning Latin American Spanish and after that I plan to learn Welsh (because I just want to.)

I love reading mostly fantasy/sci-fi books. The Hunger Games series is my favorite book series so far. I've read every book in the series.

I am teaching myself how to play the drums at home. I don't know how serious I am about learning them, though.

I don't really know what I'm looking for in a penpal. Maybe just message each other about whatever. I don't care where you're from. I'm just looking for someone to talk to. Like I said before, I've no conversational skills and it’s completely fair if you don't want to message someone like this. So just ignore this post and don't message me if you're not ok with this.

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u/Another_olive — 6 days ago
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23F [F4A] #Online — Taciturn girl in search for people who can carry a conversation

Please read very carefully and all the way through. (Or don't. I know half of you won't.) Please include your ASL when you message me please.

I am from Arizona. I am very far left-leaning. I suck at ice breakers. I suck at talking to people in general because I genuinely don't know what to say. I'm not in school or working right now. I do have plans for later but right now I don't have any reason for going out. I can't drive on my own so I can't just go out to wherever I want and just go wherever the wind takes me.

I want physical friends. When I say "physical" I mean friends I can meet up with in real life rather than over the screen. The issue here is that I'm scared to do that because I'm scared of people's true motivations on here. Now I could go out and join clubs/activities but most of those things come at a price and I don't live in a city where there are more opportunities to do those kinds of things.

Right now I mostly stay in my room and just rot in bed. I'm mostly watching youtube videos. Nothing specific. Just listening to music and something for background noise. I'm trying to not be so addicted to my phone or at least do something productive with it.

Languages: English, Spanish (Still learning. A1-A2 level.), and Welsh (Going to learn AFTER Spanish.)

Reading. Mostly fantasy and some dc comics. I'm not well versed in the comic book world though because they're not really accessible to me. The Hunger Games series is my favorite. I recently bought a new book and I'm not going to say what it is because I HAVE NOT STARTED IT YET. (Everyone asks that immediately.)

Instruments: Drums. I don't have a kit. Just a practice pad. I keep telling myself I'm going to practice more but I think I'll wait for actual lessons I can't get.

Music: Mitski, Florence+The Machine, Lady Gaga, Kendrick, Sleep Token, Killswitch Engage, Fit For An Autopsy, Slipknot, Lana Del Rey.. Can't list all of them. I would like some album recommendations.

TV shows: Rewatching Mom (2013) right now, Modern Family, George Lopez, That 70s Show, School Spirits, IASIP, Moral Orel, Jersey Shore and I like horror movies mostly. But I hate cinephiles/film buffs.

I do have a hard time expressing my thoughts and feelings, even in text. I get overwhelmed and too deep in my thoughts and sometimes shut down. So to whoever messages me, I hope you can carry the conversation. It's ok if you don't want that on you, so only message me if you're ok with that. I'm specifically looking for those who can. That's the title of this post. 420 friendly. I'm open to NSFW topics since this seems to interest people a lot more. But I'm not looking for a relationship or anything like that. I don't play games or watch anime and I haven't watched half of the most popular tv shows of all time. I don't do voice chat or anything like that. Just want to text. I really just want someone to carry the conversation. I really mean it because I can't. I don't know how to respond to things or how to respond "the right way" or how people want me to respond and people think I'm ignoring them or being rude when I'm not. I just don't know what to say.

I hate people that are racist, xenophobic, sexist, homophobic, transphobic, etc. Judgemental/rude for no reason people. All I ask is that you be a decent person and give a little intro about yourself.

I don't know why I made this post. I'm sad and in pain and lethargic right now.

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u/Another_olive — 6 days ago
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23 [F4A] #Online — anyone who can carry a conversation want to talk with someone who can't?

Please read very carefully and all the way through. (Or don't. I know half of you won't.) Please include your ASL when you message me please.

I'm from the USA. I'm very far left-leaning. I suck at ice breakers. I'm not in school or working right now. I do have plans for later but right now I don't have any reason for going out. I can't drive on my own so I can't just go out to wherever I want and just go wherever the wind takes me.

Right now I like staying in my room and bed rotting. I'm mostly watching youtube videos. Nothing specific. Just listening to music and something for background noise. I'm trying to not be so addicted to my phone or at least do something productive with it.

Languages: English, Spanish (Still learning. A1-A2 level.), and Welsh (Going to learn AFTER Spanish.)

Reading. Mostly fantasy and some dc comics. I'm not well versed in the comic book world though because they're not really accessible to me. The Hunger Games series is my favorite. I recently bought a new book and I'm not going to say what it is because I HAVE NOT STARTED IT YET. (Everyone asks that immediately.)

Instruments: Drums. I don't have a kit. Just a practice pad. I keep telling myself I'm going to practice more but I think I'll wait for actual lessons I can't get.

Music: Mitski, Florence+The Machine, Lady Gaga, Kendrick, Sleep Token, Killswitch Engage, Fit For An Autopsy, Slipknot, Lana Del Rey.. Can't list all of them. I've never been to a concert or music festival. I would like some album recommendations.

TV shows: Rewatching Mom (2013) right now, Modern Family, George Lopez, That 70s Show, School Spirits, IASIP, Moral Orel, Jersey Shore and I like horror movies mostly. But I hate cinephiles/film buffs.

I do have a hard time expressing my thoughts and feelings, even in text. I get overwhelmed and too deep in my thoughts and sometimes shut down. So to whoever messages me, I hope you can carry the conversation. It's ok if you don't want that on you, so only message me if you're ok with that. I'm specifically looking for those who can. That's the title of this post. 420 friendly. I'm open to NSFW topics since this seems to interest people a lot more. But I'm not looking for a relationship or anything like that. I don't play games or watch anime and I haven't watched half of the most popular tv shows of all time. I don't do voice chat or anything like that. Just want to text. I really just want someone to carry the conversation. I really mean it because I can't. I don't know how to respond to things or how to respond "the right way" or how people want me to respond and people think I'm ignoring them or being rude when I'm not. I just don't know what to say.

I hate people that are racist, xenophobic, sexist, homophobic, transphobic, etc. Judgemental/rude for no reason people. All I ask is that you be a decent person and give a little intro about yourself.

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u/Another_olive — 13 days ago
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23 [F4A] #Online — looking for someone who can carry a conversation because I can't

I would appreciate it if you read this post very carefully (instead of immediately messaging me just because you saw the NSFW tag.) I'm very far left-leaning. You can see my previous posts to learn more about my personality and my interests. Reading, music, tv shows and all that. I've been feeling really upset these past few weeks. I feel really low. I want to try to talk with others about whatever. I can't even think of any topics because I suck at ice breakers. I just want to feel like a human being. I am not working or in school right now, so I have no reason to go out. My days are pretty mundane. I do want to go outside and take a walk or something like that but I can't because everyone around me treats me like I'm helpless and I'm not. Also snakes are out. This is one way for me to meet new people, even if it's over a screen. I do have a hard time expressing my thoughts and feelings, even in text. I get overwhelmed and too deep in my thoughts and sometimes shut down. So to whoever messages me, I hope you can carry the conversation. It's ok if you don't want that on you, so only message me if you're ok with that. I'm specifically looking for those who can. That's the title of this post. 420 friendly. I'm open to NSFW topics since this seems to interest people a lot more. But I'm not looking for a relationship or anything like that. I don't play games or watch anime and I haven't watched half of the most popular tv shows of all time. I don't do voice chat or anything like that. Just want to text. Anyways, thank you for reading. Give me some time please and thank you.

I really just want someone to carry the conversation. That specifically. I really mean it because I can't. I don't know how to respond to things or how to respond "the right way" or how people want me to respond and people think I'm ignoring them or being rude when I'm not. I just don't know what to say.

I hate people that are racist, xenophobic, sexist, homophobic, transphobic, etc. Judgemental/rude for no reason people. All I ask is that you be a decent person and give a little intro about yourself.

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u/Another_olive — 22 days ago
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23 [F4A] #Online — anyone want to talk with someone who can't carry a convo?

I would appreciate it if you read this post carefully (instead of immediately messaging me just because you saw the NSFW tag.) I'm very far left-leaning. You can see my previous posts to learn more about my personality and my interests. Reading, music, tv shows and all that. I've been feeling really upset these past few weeks. I feel really low. I want to try to talk with others about whatever. I can't even think of any topics because I suck at ice breakers. I just want to feel like a human being. I am not working or in school right now, so I have no reason to go out. My days are pretty mundane. I do want to go outside and take a walk or something like that but I can't because everyone around me treats me like I'm helpless and I'm not. Also snakes are out. This is one way for me to meet new people, even if it's over a screen. I do have a hard time expressing my thoughts and feelings, even in text. I get overwhelmed and too deep in my thoughts and sometimes shut down. So to whoever messages me, I hope you can carry the conversation. It's ok if you don't want that on you, so only message me if you're ok with that. 420 friendly. I'm open to NSFW topics since this seems to interest people a lot more. But I'm not looking for a relationship or anything like that. I don't play games or watch anime and I haven't watched half of the most popular tv shows of all time. I don't do voice chat or anything like that. Just want to text. Anyways, thank you for reading. I'm probably going to fall asleep so give me some time please and thank you.

I really just want someone to carry the conversation. I really mean it because I can't. I don't know how to respond to things or how to respond "the right way" or how people want me to respond and people think I'm ignoring them when I'm not. I just don't know what to say.

I hate people that are racist, xenophobic, sexist, homophobic, transphobic, etc. Judgemental/rude for no reason people. All I ask is that you be a decent person and give a little intro about yourself.

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u/Another_olive — 23 days ago
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23 [F4A] #Online Dry and boring texter looking for someone to talk to

Hi, here I am with a new post. I would appreciate if you read carefully. You can see my previous posts to learn more about my personality and my interests. Reading, music, tv shows and all that. I've been feeling really upset these past few days. I feel really low. I want to try to talk with others about whatever. I can't even think of any topics because I suck at ice breakers. I just want to feel like a human being. I am not working or in school right now, so I have no reason to go out. My days are pretty mundane. This is one way for me to meet new people, even if it's over a screen. I do have a hard time expressing my thoughts and feelings, even in text. I get overwhelmed and too deep in my thoughts and sometimes shut down. So to whoever messages me, I hope you can carry the conversation. It's ok if you don't want that on you, so only message me if you're ok with that. 420 friendly. I'm open to NSFW topics since this seems to interest people a lot more. But I'm not looking for a relationship or anything like that. I don't play games or watch anime. I don't do voice chat or anything like that. Just want to text. Anyways, thank you for reading. I'm probably going to fall asleep so give me some time please and thank you.

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u/Another_olive — 30 days ago
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23 [F4A] #Online Sad dry texter who wants to talk

Hi, I'm just typing what I feel right now. You can see my previous post to learn more about my personality and my interests. Reading, music, tv shows and all that. I've been feeling really upset these past few days. I cried out of nowhere today after feeling relaxed. And I got a bruise on my finger this morning so that sucks. I came back on here and I still feel upset. I feel very awful about myself. Just really low. I want to try to talk with others if they want to about whatever. I can't even think of any topics because I suck at ice breakers. I just want to feel like a human being. 420 friendly. I'm open to NSFW topics since this seems to interest people a lot more. But I'm not looking for a relationship or anything like that. Anyways, thank you for reading

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u/Another_olive — 1 month ago