Fp left (but weirdly) - i’m struggling and need advice
We have all been here, it’s not my first time dealing with the loss and abandonment of someone I became attached to (except it’s different this time).
I think because of the circumstances it has made it harder to combat.
Here’s a summary of what happened;
- All went well
- Was being treated like a queen
- Received so much reassurance
- Went down hill when she bailed from wanting to change for me & said she didn’t want to lead me on with the knowledge of not knowing what she wanted with me
- Told me she was happy with not changing / not wanting to change for me
- Offered support
- Abandoned me out of fear of hurting me
- Subtly launching the fact she’s open for me to talk to & ‘it might not be the end’. She also confirmed she still likes me, but non-strict no contact is best for us.
Basically an ‘abandoned on good terms’ moment. It happened so fast. I am absolutely devastated and I want to be able to get over this. I’ve had a severe crying spell lasting for days.
I’ve never had a fp leave me on good terms, any advice on how to cope with the ‘we could’ve been’ and ‘what if thoughts’ etc..