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Class was canceled so they offered free open pole instead... and no one else showed up!

I bought a pole in November and have been taking studio classes about once a week since January or February. This was my first time trying out open pole and I got very close to canceling from nerves... shoutout to my wife for pushing me to go anyway. Getting to dance alone for an hour with high ceilings and ample floor space was absolutely incredible.

Edit: I had naively assumed there would be music playing already and didn't come prepared to connect to speakers. Don't repeat my mistakes! Dancing in silence felt very dream sequence especially in today's heat but it would have been nice to listen to something other than my own heavy breathing, pole squeaks, and periodic autism chirps lol

u/leavethatgirlalone — 5 hours ago
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Does anyone else see it? 👀

Am I the only one who feels like it looks like someone pushed me? 😂 I know I just fell, but my ankles don't even seem to buckle... it almost looks like an invisible shove. Anyone else see it?

u/ladyobsidianx — 9 hours ago

"Am I too old to star" - STOP IT

I think I'm in my feels because I started pole dancing last year in April, at the age of 29. I had just moved to a new city with an abusive fiance (he's gone, thankfully, last time he hit me I finally hit him back and kicked his ass out) and I was just all over the place. Pole helped me reclaim my sense of self, helped me feel more sexy and confident, humbled the SHIT out of me (in a good way!), and find friends and community. Then life kicked my ass two months ago--I have breast cancer. I think I'll be okay, I had surgery, doctors think it's small and curable, but treatment will alter my life and my body in ways I don't have time to get into right now.

I'm thirty and still feel *so painfully young*, and yet this random, inexplicable disease (I have no family history, no genetic markers for it, led a healthy lifestyle)​ is here fucking up my life. I just had surgery and can't pole dance for at least two weeks, minimum. I don't know how I'll feel through radiation and chemo. I don't know if I'll feel energized and well enough to do it. The journey of getting back on my feet may be longer than I desire. Not to even mention the crippling fear that my disease will come back, be worse than we thought, etc.

So please stop taking your body for granted. Unless you're dying tomorrow, no, you are not too "old" to start. It is never too late to start.

/rant​

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u/KillTheBoyBand — 11 hours ago

Chris Brown Association

I’ve seen pole dancers breaking into the industry and associating with Chris brown. WGFT remix music video for example. maybe not a black and white answer but how do yall feel about this? it’s very challenging to break into performing with mainstream artists and big stages. however, maybe some opportunities it’s important to say no too when they are not aligned with your values. thoughts?

little edit: I’m speaking not just of playing him while dancing , but getting paid to dance with him on a stage, music video, etc.

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u/Party-Gene1469 — 15 hours ago

It's great when you can just suddenly do something that felt scary before.

I had been really scared to take my hands off in bat. Then suddenly I just felt secure and it was easy!

u/Sayge_Paige — 15 hours ago

I wanted to share this with you—giving it my all in my sports class. 🩰🎀

✨️✨️✨️

u/duquessa_21 — 17 hours ago

looking for feedback!

hiii this is one of those things where I watch a video too many times and start doubting it

Ik there’s some wobbles with my heels on carpet :( but keen to hear what people think and how I could improve!

u/littlebutterfly8443 — 20 hours ago

Why must we stay on this dirty ground when we could fly among with the clouds?

u/UtaOrang — 19 hours ago

Beginner freestyling here.. Struggling with flow! Any advice ...

I started pole classes around 2 months ago - but have experience with aerials for many years and have had a pole in the house for some years though it wasnt used much. The pole classes are great but we just learn static tricks on the pole. I have a want burning inside me to move and free style with the pole but I feel clunky and awkward and like I cant break free and dont know how to overcome that. Has anyone else felt the same? How do I break free?! Does anyone have recommendations of online tutorials that might help. I have adhd and really struggle to learn strict choreos! Thanks so much in advance.

u/JenGaLyra — 1 day ago

ℙ•𝕠•𝕝•𝕖• •𝔻•𝕒•𝕟•𝕔•𝕖•

#poledance #femme #pole #sexy #redhead

#ginger #girl

u/kabronina — 1 day ago

Beginner looking for some tips

Hello!! I recently got a pole and I’ve had it for about a week now. I can only hang and spin on it using my legs and arms for about 15 seconds and a front and back hook for like 2 seconds lol. I can hold a pole sit for a little bit but end up sliding down. I also have been trying to climb, I am able to step up but I can’t go another step up. I am plus size, I am 250 and 5’9 and I’ve been on a calorie deficit before pole because I’m trying to lose weight, but haven’t actually began trying to build muscle and adding cardio. So, I thought adding some pole for exercise will help. I realize I need to condition myself and build strength. I was wondering if anybody had some beginner conditioning exercises I can do? On pole and at home. Anything helps ☺️☺️ Thanks!

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u/oppslaya — 1 day ago

Choker Scorpio at a 4th of July event last night!

I’ve never used grippy clothes for pole before, and I bought these cause I wanted a way to cover my tattoos as much as possible and to still be able to use the stage pole. In almost 90 degree heat and sun I managed to use the pole for the 4 hours, and I couldn’t have done it without my grippy sleeves and pants! I’ll happily share what they are if people are curious, but I didn’t want folks to think I somehow benefit from talking about them.

Enjoy one of the last photos of the night that I took with my boots on so I didn’t scare all the people away 😂

u/slipslapflap — 1 day ago

Micro Bends - Help!

I’ve always struggled with micro bends. Does anyone have advice on how to fix them? And exercises I should be doing? My hamstrings are insanely tight and I’ve been doing hot yoga to try to help that. Here’s a rough attempt at Baby Rains choreo🫶🏻

u/polemyhair — 1 day ago