My boyfriend’s aunt kept making comments about me being in my pajamas and now his mom is making jokes about it a week later
So I am so annoyed right now because I always spend the night at my boyfriend’s house on the weekends. His aunt came who just a side note has always been the type to be up in ppls business and ask a lot of questions and it always pissed me off. But yes his aunt came here and she came here to wash clothes for herself, her son and her son’s wife and their two kids who live with her and also her parents who are my bfs grandparents. She is also still living in their house and because there is a drought and there is a water lock off in their area that’s why she wanted to wash here. Also this is my bfs parents house and she is his dads sister.
It’s a Saturday and I was lounging around in my pajamas for most of the day, my bf was going to drop his nephew to a bday party so I followed him in my pajamas because I wasn’t coming out of the car. When I came back and was in the kitchen cooking something the aunt was still here and this had been about 7 hours so far that she had been at the house. She made a comment to me saying I thought you guys went on the road I said yes we were just dropping him off and she goes in your pajamas I said yes we were just dropping off and I wasn’t coming out the car.
Four hours later I come out in just a regular shirt and shorts and I overheard the aunt say something about what I was wearing and my bfs mom says oh she’s just in another pajama now and they laughed and my bf said they are making fun of you being in pajamas all day.
And I said well my pajamas are cute why wouldn’t I be in them all day. And then the icing on the cake now today this morning a week later, his sister said I had looked dressed up I said I went on the road and my bfs mom says yes because she can’t be in pajamas again.
Why is this still coming up? Also in general if I lounge around in whatever it is my bfs mom couldn’t care less and doesn’t say anything and never had before. But the fact that the aunt kept making comments to me and then to her when I wasn’t around last week now it’s a thing and it’s pissing me off. If I want to lounge all day on a Saturday in my pajamas leave me tf alone.
I feel like his aunt should’ve minded her own business, washed all the clothes she was washing and left. But she’s here being concerned about what I’m wearing and watching me all day and making comments to me and other ppl in the house about me being in pajamas?
I also asked my bf what was said to her mother for it to even come up and he said they were talking about having a relaxing day and the aunt said well she sure did she’s been in pajamas all day.
I was so annoyed because I don’t like feeling watched when I’m just trying to relax on a Saturday