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Okay so im thinking I might be aplatonic (if youve seen my last post you’ll know how thats going) and wanted to know just how strong platonic attraction could get, and how it is when it’s more normal. Cause I can feel platonic attraction still it just seems dimmer, and a bit off. This is coming from a very introverted person so Id also want to know if theres a big difference from introverted and extroverted people.

Anyway help of any kind is, hmm, needed? But yea thanks!

The Aplatonic subreddit is probably a better place to post this but nobody helping and I really want someone to help.

So ive been thinking about this recently. But I feel like im somewhere on the aplatonic spec, Im pretty sure i feel platonic attraction but not as much. Like i remember back in elementary i felt platonic attraction very strongly, but now it seems very hard to find someone like that. Ik i was probably just young and naive so that might have affected that. But I did finally find someone that I actually connected to, it’s been a year now and I feel like that connection has slowly been going away. I mean hes great and we talk daily still but something seems to have gone away or is going away and I can’t figure it out. I feel like i could be freyplatonic but the platonic attraction doesn’t fully go away, not sure if that changes the term, it probably doesn’t.

Anyways, thanks for the feedback, hope you guys can help

So ive been thinking about this recently, just to let ya’ll know, I am aroace. But I feel like im somewhere on this spec, Im pretty sure i feel platonic attraction but not as much. Like i remember back in elementary i felt platonic attraction very strongly, but now it seems very hard to find someone like that. Ik i was probably just naive so that might have affected that. But I did finally find someone that I actually connected to, it’s been a year now and I feel like that connection has slowly been going away. I mean hes great and we talk daily still but something seems to have gone away and I can’t figure it out. I feel like i could be freyplatonic but the platonic attraction doesn’t fully go away, not sure if that changes the term, it probably doesn’t. Anyways, thanks for the feedback, hope you guys can help