▲ 19 r/xxitaly

Il pap test fa male??

Ho una paura terribile, ho solo 24 anni ma prima o poi dovrò farlo. Ho in generale un bruttissimo rapporto con le procedure mediche, non vado dal dentista da anni per paura del fastidio e ho avuto un attacco di panico quando ho fatto il laser all'occhio (intervento che mi era stato fatto con pomata anestetica e che mi era stato venduto come "un pochino fastidioso"). La mia unica esperienza con una ginecologa è stata orribile, non tanto perché mi ha fatto male ma perché mi ha dato tanto fastidio la sensazione della visita e inoltre non ho capito bene quello che mi è stato detto. Non ci andrò più se non quando dovrò fare lo screening dell'hpv se non ho problemi prima.

Ho una paura terribile perché so che non ti danno nessuna anestesia, mia mamma dice che non fa male ma è la stessa persona che mi ha costretto a farmi il silk e pil dicendo anche lì "non fa male". Ho tantissima paura penso proprio che quando lo dovrò fare mi prenderò un ansiolitico prima.

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u/Any_Chance725 — 7 days ago
▲ 2 r/period

What should the cervix feel before my period?

My period is due in 2 days. I've had some odd symptoms, like exceptionally sore breasts (I can't even sleep without a bra, never happened to me) and they also never changed size since they got big with ovulation. I am trying not to stress too much because I understand this can be a normal PMS symptom and they can vary throughout life.

I started to get familiar with checking my cervix last month, to be more in touch with my fertility. We are not trying for a baby rn, we have protected intercourse.

Last month at this stage my cervix was low and firm (about a knuckle deep), now it didn't bug a bit since ovulation. Still high and soft like my lips. I have to use my whole finger to feel it, and being the curious person I am I've checked it multiple times.

Again, I am trying to stay calm because chances I'm pregnant are extremely low + nothing is a reliable method except for a test if I miss my period. I've had teeny tiny cramps so hopefully it's coming soon.

Does anyone have such experience?

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u/Any_Chance725 — 10 days ago

Does anyone else have strong beliefs/ sensations about when something will happen?

I am 24 an I've had this sensation for seven?? eight? years now: it's like it was revealed to me. I feel a strong connection with a specific period (late may, 2027) as I feel like that's when my first child will be born. I also strongly believe I will die on a friday in late august of an odd year (probably past the 2070s). I know I will die old.

I know I'm not the only one in my family having a 6th sense or unexplainable sensations (my great grandma was able to tell where they were going to bomb during the war).

There wouldn't be nothing wrong with this but may 2027 is pretty darn close for someone who doesn't have a house nor a job 😂.

Does anyone experience this?

Edit: I will report back if my prediction was correct.

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u/Any_Chance725 — 13 days ago
▲ 2 r/Dreams

Can I get a recurring character back?

I used to dream my baby daughter frequently. She has a name and distinct facial features. I never had a baby irl but that's my biggest dream.

She stopped appearing in September, when I understood what was she representing in my psyche. However I really miss her I want to see her again...

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u/Any_Chance725 — 16 days ago