u/Any_Meringue1827

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Am I going crazy or ako talaga ang mali?

CONTEXT: I (21M) had a fight with my bf (20M) recently. Long story, short— Nagkakaroon kami ng problems sa bahay and I feel like napagtutulungan ako ng mga kapatid ko, without revealing too much our mom is sick and she's refusing to get treatment kasi daw mas kailangan ko (I also have a few illnesses.) and mga kapatid ko lowkey are blaming me.

Now I cam to my boyfriend about this, told him my side and nagsumbong ako, thinking he would be there for me. Binuhos ko sa kanya nararamdamn ko, i became vulnerable and all he replied was "no comment." Literally. No comfort, no assurance, nothing yang dalawang words lang na yan. Naghintay pa ako nang ilang minuto to wait for a follow up response pero wala talaga. I was thinking na matutulungan niya ako kumalma because I've done that to him multiple times. Pero I got nothing.

Dahil don siguro mas lalo akong naoverwhelm ng emotions ko and yes maybe sa kanya ko nabuhos frustrations ko, pero this was his responses.

Hindi ko alam kung ako ba yung mali and sinusubukan ko lang pilitin sarili ko na tama at valid ang naging reaction ko. Hindi ko ma-figure out if he's just being "neutral" and ayaw makialam sa family issues ko or he doesn't care about me enough.

Before that SS i asked him if he cares. And yung chat niyang ako ang mapapasama kapag nag comment siya when all I told him was my siblings were ganging up on me dahil ako daw yung reason why ayaw ni mama magpagamot, dahil din sa mga treatments ko. I felt even lower kasi parang gusto niya rin akong sisihin. Ang sakit lang kasi the person who claimed to love me cant even be there for me.

PS: Not sure if this changed things pero he knows my family personally. Pinakilala ko na siya and madalas siya pumupunta here and to sleepover.

u/Any_Meringue1827 — 7 days ago
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Crazy Dorm Hookup Experience

Just wanted to share a crazy hookup experience I had last night LMAO

Me and my friends went partying last night dahil katatapos ng semester. Around 1 AM I was already kinda drunk and was mingling na sa other tables, there was this group of friends na same univ namin. One of the guys dun was like drunk na talaga nakadukdok na siya sa table. But he would constantly look up at me tapos kinikindatan ko haahha he was cute, twink, chinito, short and naka glasses.

When he sobered up a bit we started talking and flirting, hanggang sa nauwi sa we were kissing na in front of our friends HAHAHA. Mga 2 AM he asked me if I wanna go back to his place daw. He was still a bit drunk pero inassure ako ng friends niya na kaya niya raw sarili niya so I said yes.

We took the taxi and arrived at his place, it was an apartment style building(?) pero walang guard or bantay sa baba. Dahan dahan pa kami pumasok para di marinig yung gate na bumukas baka daw mahuli kami eh bawal visitors HAHAHA.

Ayun we had a fun night. pagdating sa room niya laplapan agad. Then we took each other's clothes off na. I didn't care na if amoy alak kami or malagkit hahaha I was so horny. We fucked raw and pa-umaga na nung matapos kami. Then we slept magka-cuddle.

The crazy thing happened nung morning na HAHAHA. I woke up before him tapos asked where the bathroom was. Nasa labas ng room kasi common bathroom daw per floor. He then went back to sleep. Edi ayun I went muna sa bathroom to pee, wala namang nakakita sakin nung papunta ako. After I was done paglabas na paglabas ko nakita ako nung I think caretaker or bantay nung apartment HAHAHAHAHAHAH gagu grabe yung kaba ko, takot na takot ako. Tinanong agad ako sino ako tas saan ako galing😭 DI KO ALAM NAME NUNG NAKA HOOKUP KO HAHAHAHA I froze and stuttered tapos tinuro ko lang room niya. Sabi sakin ng bantay "Hala kayo di mo kilala? Anong ginagawa niyo?" Awkward laugh lang ako HAHAHAHA

I went back sa room nakatingin lang sakin nang masama yung bantay pero di me pinigilan. Ginising ko yung guy and told him what happened, kahit siya nag panic HAHAHAHAHHA sabi ko need ko na umalis and he helped me snuck out nang di nahuhuli lmaooo.

Pag uwi ko sa place ko narealize ko di ko pa rin alam name niya, until now wala ako contact sa kanya whatsoever so that's that xDDD

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u/Any_Meringue1827 — 3 months ago
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I know some people are in a throuple naman pero are they really in it for something serious or is it just another casual dating typa thing?

I've never seen or heard of a throuple success story tbh, even though madalas ko makita sa social media. I'm no stranger din naman sa open relationship which is essentially just another form of polyamory, pero iba kasi siya sa tatlo kayo sa relationship and all of you love each other.

Please enlighten meee

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u/Any_Meringue1827 — 4 months ago
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I dont know kung saang flair ito belong pero I'm using this kasi may slight rant ako.

Nasa province ako kanina and pabalik na ako sa Univ, pagsakay ko ng bus halos puno na, yung mga bakante nalang is the last row and second to the last, eh hindi ako comfortable umupo dun and 5 hours din byahe ko so I chose one of the aisle seat sa gitna. Yung katabi ko is isang transgender woman na around 30-40 na siya siguro. After a couple minutes tumitingin tingin ako sa window para libangin sarili ko while listening to music. Di ko naman sinasadya napatingin ako sa phone ng katabi ko kasi nasight ko yung yellow blue and black na color scheme (grindr) HAHAHAHAHHA. Medyo nagpigil ako pero di ko kaya tiisin pagkachismoso huhuhu nagpapsimple ako tumitingin sa cp niya😭

May kachat siya na guy and pogi naman nung nasulyapan ko pagkatingin niya sa album HAHAHA siguro bagets pa mga college student, slim na medyo toned yung guy. Pero mostly nasa locations lang tumitingin yung trans. Until nasatisfy na ko and di na ko tumingin, I tried na matulog muna sa byahe. Nagising ako after an hour and andun pa rin yung trans sa tabi ko. Pagkacheck ko kausap niya pa rin yung guy. Malapit na raw siya tapos nagpasend ng loc yung guy, edi sinend ng katabi ko. GAGO BIGLA NAWALA NUNG SINEND NIYA😭😭😭

She was refreshing pa yung chat page sa grindr, tapos inexit niya and inopen uli pero wala na😭 I felt na desperate siya so nirestart niya pa cp niya pero wala tlaaga huhuhu nablock na siya😭😭

Nakakaawa kasi almost 2 hours na siguro siya sa byahe? Nauna pa siya sumakay sakin so baka 2 or more hours na nga siya huhuhuhu i was shooketh!!! Narinig ko bigla nalang siya pumara tapos naki-excuse sakin para bumaba😭 gago kawawa talaga leche kayo mga naggagago sa grindr!!! kung di niyo type madali lang naman iblock agad, hindi yung papapuntahin niyo pa tapos hindi sisiputin. Pare-parehas lang din naman hanap natin sa app, bakit kailangan pa mang-agrabyado ng tao huhuhu kung sino man yung lalaki sana magkaroon siya ng erectile dysfunction!!! Kawawa ang mama!!!

Also bakit nagshoshow yung mga malalayo sa grindr?? New feature ba talga yun? Dami ko namemeet na pogi tapos makikita ko 30-40km away leche

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u/Any_Meringue1827 — 4 months ago