AITA for telling my girlfriend she acts spoiled
So last night I was playing a game online with my brother *DAY Z* and you obviously cannot pause in a lobby. She gets home from work, I had already cooked dinner, *I also pay the rent and pretty much all the groceries* but I was playing, she comes home, I tell my brother I’m gonna make her plate so we hide in a house. Give her a kiss, pour her a glass of wine and make her plate, I then say okay my brother is waiting and go back to the game, I don’t play games very often anymore and I haven’t seen my brother in years so this was supposed to be a fun night. She eats, then goes to shower without saying anything. I thought okay she’s just giving me time with my brother. I hear the shower turn off and she comes to bed so I tell my brother alright bro I’m gonna get off, *i live in Germany and he is in the states so it was maybe 11:30 at night for me. So game is off and she finally lays down, I go to cuddle and hold her and all hell breaks loose, she slaps my arm away and gives me a disgusted look. I said excuse me? She then explodes saying I was acting like she doesn’t exist, that I can’t even hug her. But none of my actions say I’m acting like she doesn’t exist besides the fact I didn’t crawl all over her when she walked in the door. We live together and I just wanted to enjoy a night with my brother, but also realized she would want to go to bed so I turned it off despite that, we had a big argument, I told her she’s acting so spoiled and ungrateful, she told me F you so I just said whatever grow up and went to sleep on the couch. I heard her packing up an overnight bag to most likely sleep at her dads and I said, if you leave you can leave the key too. And that was it. Writing this from the couch now lol. I have no idea.
***UPDATE*** It’s the next morning and I’m here at the gym, she turned her location off😂 I’m starting to think this is extremely toxic behavior. But we see how the day goes. Not gonna do the same thing or react, this reminds me of high school antics.