My best friend and me have become to very often argue about things and I’m starting to resenting him. Why…?
Me and my friend began arguing recently whenever we play video games together in amounts that is way too frequent to be normal. They always use negative language when talking, like calming us names or making sure the last thing they say before they leave is that we should commit suicide or they hate us.
I really do love this person, but I’ve begun to hate being around them. I don’t want them around me as often anymore and there are things they are asking me to do that I no longer want to simply because they’re so mean to me.
The issue is they say I’m mean back, but feel like it’s more so my friend taking small jokes as huge attacks on who they are as a person even if they do the same thing to us and we have the same reaction, it becomes a big deal.
TLDR: my friend has started being an ass to me and our other friends for some reason and I wanna know if I’m the problem or if there’s something else going on.