u/Aphor1st

Image 1 — Need so help with the furniture in this room. It's a little oddly shaped.
Image 2 — Need so help with the furniture in this room. It's a little oddly shaped.
Image 3 — Need so help with the furniture in this room. It's a little oddly shaped.
Image 4 — Need so help with the furniture in this room. It's a little oddly shaped.
Image 5 — Need so help with the furniture in this room. It's a little oddly shaped.
Image 6 — Need so help with the furniture in this room. It's a little oddly shaped.
Image 7 — Need so help with the furniture in this room. It's a little oddly shaped.

Need so help with the furniture in this room. It's a little oddly shaped.

Okay I have shown him and tried three different layouts at this point and from looking at the comments here. My decorating decisions are just a mess and I shouldn't bother anymore my colors sucks my art is horrible etc. I'm just going to move my shit to my office do what I want in there and he can deal with the rest of the house. I'm over it. Thank you all for opening my eyes and trying to give me advice I really appreciate it. And don't worry I'll put everything back to white walls they were bright blue when we moved in so at least I got that win.

Reposting because a bunch of the photos didn't post. My husband is deployed and I have been doing all the moving in and decorating on my own. He hates all of it. The paint, the color (he didn't want to pick any on his own and the 20 I swatched he hated all of), the wall design that I did. The placement of stuff on the shelves (Needs more clutter). I think I'm going to deal with most of that when he gets back. He can do his own thing with it and pick out colors.

He also hates the furniture placement. He said the couches are too close together (we also never use the front door we go in and out of the garage so the couch can block it I just don't like how it looks). He doesn't like the dark brown shelf where it is behind the couch. It was in front of the sliding glass door but since we have dogs I was having to dust it every other day so it's not going back there. I do have another corner piece I could add on to the couch and they can be put in any configuration.

I'm just blanking on what to do with all of it. Any help?

Edit to add: Glare and viewing angle of the TV is an issue with a lot of the suggestions. New furniture can not be purchased for a while as other house repairs (in the 20k -30k range) are taking priority. We need lots of seating as we host large BBQs every Saturday for 8-12 people. Also we have two large dogs that both have to be in the couch with us or they have tantrums lol. There is also no space for a dining table in the house so meals will be eaten in the living room so a coffee table is a must. We have a second one that is much larger. I have tried another arraignment with the TV on the other wall check the comments for the newreading.

Also can't really mount the TV the walls are not dry wall. They are lath and plaster and have iron bars not wood. It is also very damaging to them.

Last edit: I just want to say thank you so much for ALL of the advice. Its giving me so many ideas on fixing this. Thank you all! I have two other arrangements ya'll have suggested and after I get this last load of stuff out of the garage and put away I'll try them. I'll add photos to the comme I when I do. Please keep them coming!

u/Aphor1st — 6 days ago

FAQs for r/PalmSprings. Need to know what to do? Where to go? and what living here is like? Start here!

🌴 Palm Springs FAQ/PSA: Start Here Before Posting 🌴

Welcome to r/PalmSprings! This post is meant to help visitors, locals, future residents, and repeat question-askers find the most useful information before making a new post.

Palm Springs and the greater Coachella Valley have a lot to offer: pools, mid-century modern architecture, hiking, spas, restaurants, LGBTQIA+ nightlife, events, festivals, golf, art, shopping, and nearby desert day trips. A lot of common questions have already been answered in the wiki and in past subreddit threads, so please start here first.

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Latest Update: May 13, 2026
This FAQ has been refreshed with newer wiki pages, updated visitor resources, short-term rental guidance, moving advice, restaurant/bar/hotel guides, and popular Reddit recommendation threads from the last few years.


Before You Post

Please check the wiki, this FAQ, and the subreddit search before posting common questions like:

  • “Where should I stay?”
  • “What should I do this weekend?”
  • “Best restaurants?”
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  • “Is summer really that hot?”
  • “Do I need a car?”
  • “Best hotel pool?”
  • “Where should I go for a bachelorette/bachelor trip?”
  • “What city should I stay in?”
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  • “Can I bring my dog hiking?”
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If you still post, you will get much better answers if you include details.

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Low-detail posts may be removed or redirected to this FAQ, the wiki, or a monthly Q&A thread.


The r/PalmSprings Wiki

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Official Visitor Resources

These are good places to check for current information, events, hours, and planning help.


Quick Answers to Common Questions

Do I need a car?

Maybe. If you are staying downtown and mostly want restaurants, bars, shopping, museums, and pool time, you may be fine walking and using rideshare.

You probably want a car if you plan to visit Joshua Tree, Indian Canyons, Tahquitz Canyon, Palm Desert, La Quinta, Indio, Desert Hot Springs, The Living Desert, golf courses, or multiple valley cities.

See: Getting Around Town


When is the best time to visit?

Generally, October through April is the most comfortable season. Spring is popular for events and outdoor activities. Summer is much hotter and requires planning around heat.

Summer can still be fun for pools, spas, restaurants, museums, hotel deals, and nightlife, but hiking and outdoor activities should be done very early or skipped.

See: Complete Guide to Visiting Palm Springs


Is summer really that hot?

Yes. Do not underestimate it. Summer highs are often over 100°F, and midday outdoor activities can be dangerous. Plan around pools, shade, air conditioning, museums, spas, and evening activities.

Do not hike in extreme heat unless you are experienced, prepared, and starting very early.

See: Hiking and Outdoor Safety


What city should I stay in?

It depends on your trip.

  • Palm Springs: best for first-time visitors, nightlife, restaurants, LGBTQIA+ bars, boutique hotels, architecture, walkability.
  • Desert Hot Springs: mineral spas, quieter retreats, usually more driving.
  • Cathedral City: central location, sometimes more affordable, mostly car-dependent.
  • Rancho Mirage: upscale resorts, golf, quiet luxury.
  • Palm Desert: shopping, family-friendly resorts, The Living Desert, El Paseo, golf.
  • La Quinta: golf, resorts, mountain views, Old Town La Quinta.
  • Indio: Coachella/Stagecoach, festivals, larger rentals, east valley.
  • Coachella: east valley, cultural events, not the same as the festival grounds.
  • Thousand Palms: quieter/residential, near Coachella Valley Preserve.

See: Where to Stay


Popular Reddit Threads: Visiting / General Trip Advice


Where to Eat

Start here:

Popular restaurant threads


Where to Drink / Nightlife

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Popular categories:

  • Cocktail lounges
  • Tiki bars
  • LGBTQIA+ bars
  • Sports bars
  • Breweries
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Please search before posting. These come up often.

Group trip tips:

  • Make dinner reservations early.
  • Call restaurants for large groups.
  • Use rideshare if drinking.
  • Do not plan loud parties at vacation rentals.
  • Check short-term rental rules before booking a house.
  • Respect residential neighborhoods.

LGBTQIA+ Palm Springs

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Moving to Palm Springs

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Popular moving threads


Hiking and Outdoor Safety

Start here:

Quick safety reminders:

  • Bring more water than you think you need.
  • Do not hike in extreme heat.
  • Start early.
  • Wear sunscreen, sunglasses, and a hat.
  • Do not rely on cell service.
  • Many trails do not allow dogs.
  • Stay on marked trails.
  • Respect cultural and protected areas.

Events

Start here:

Major annual / recurring events include:


Final Reminder

Palm Springs is a great place to visit and live, but the best recommendations depend on your dates, budget, transportation, interests, and group. Please use the wiki and search first, then include details if you make a post.

If you notice broken links, closed restaurants, outdated hotel information, changed short-term rental rules, missing resources, or anything that should be added, please message the mods.

Thanks for helping keep r/PalmSprings useful, welcoming, and easy to search!

u/Aphor1st — 9 days ago

MOD update. New FAQ, updating the wiki and more.

Good morning r/PalmSprings. Sorry I have been gone for so long. I have been through several life changing events (I got married, I'm over a year sober and a new puppy), and I have been a bad mod because of it. I will be back with a vengeance now and I'm ready to make some updates.

The FAQ seems to need some new posts and links added to it as well as the Wiki. If you have any suggestions for what to add please leave a comment.

I will be going through a lot of the recommendation posts over the last year and massively updating the wiki and adding new pages. If there is anything you want to see added to the wiki please let me know!

I know I have missed a lot in the last year and it looks like the rules need a bit of a refresh. I will be going over those as well. If you have and suggestions for changes please leave a comment.

If you have any comments questions or concerns about the state of the sub also please leave me a comment.

I am sorry again for my absence. Thank-you so much to the other mods who did their best to fill in.

**EDIT new links have been added to the FAQ!**

Edit 2 a New Faq post has been made! Check it out here

I am also playing with automod right now so please excuse any wonky double comments for the next few days! I am working on it.

I have also added some new automations that will point people to the wiki and the FAQ before they post.

Edit again: I have fixed the sell your shit sunday posts and will start to post on sundays again.

Hopefully final edit: I have added a rotating monthly mega thread that will start next month. Each covers a different topic. I have them set up through December. If they are popular I will continue them in to next year. If not they will fade away!

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u/Aphor1st — 9 days ago

My spouse wants to quit working and stay at home in a year. I am trying to figure out our budget and if I am missing anything.

After all deductions (life insurance, 401k, disability insurance, and taxes) I make about $9,500 a month. I am currently on my spouses insurance so it will be an additional $422 for both of us on mine (medical, dental and vision). My spouse is currently active duty military and would be switching to the reserves. They would get a retirement payment starting at 60. They are currently making about $7500 a month. We are in our mid 30s.

We currently have three mortgages totalling about 7k. We are selling one of the houses right now. So that will be $2400 less. And one house has a renter that covers most of the mortgage (renters is family) which makes the mortgages in total $2900.

Both cars are paid off and we are selling one for ~10k and that will go to my spouses savings. I work from home so we should not need more than one car. Insurance for that car is $130.

There is no significant credit card or other loan debt. We both pay off cards at the end of every month.

Groceries is $600-800 a month (we host a lot of dinner parties and BBQs) though we could get that down to $400-600.

I usually only fill up my tank once a month but I would guess with both of us driving it will be twice. $100

We have two dogs food, treats and money I put in savings monthly for vet bills is $600. No children and no plans to have children.

Subscriptions is about $80

Hobbies, going out, and vacation savings is currently $1500. Vacation savings is $800 a month $400 from each.

I have VA benefits so despite me having regular insurance. My out of pocket costs are zero. I am not positive for my spouses costs (active duty military) but maybe $1000 a year.

Is there anything else major I am missing?

If my math is right that leaves around $3000 a month for other savings or spending. I want to set up a retirement account for my spouse as well. I'm not sure if backdooring a roth (or if that is needed due to no income on their end) is possible or if a spousal IRA would be better. I would also like to set aside money for their own savings each month. I'm not sure what amount or percent of my income would be reasonable. I am also not sure of there is any other financial considerations I should have to make sure my spouse will be financially secure in any event of death or divorce. My life insurance is currently $500k but I might increase this.

I am also working in a non-profit sector and I could go back to the corporate world and get a $50-80k a year increase. However, I switched to nonprofit for better work/life balance and I would like to avoid going back.

Any help here would be amazing. Thank you.

Edit to add: He would be receiving about $1k a month from the reserves and another $400-2000 from the VA.

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u/Aphor1st — 14 days ago

I'm really happy with how it came out. I attempted this succulent about three times and this is the retry of my first attempt!

u/Aphor1st — 15 days ago