Good morning,
My gf (28) got on a GLP a few months ago and has lost weight which is a good thing for her. But for me it’s a nightmare. I’m the one that does that cooking and grocery shopping. She’s been a picky eater before starting it but now it’s worse. Couple of bites and she’s full.
How do I navigate this to better support her and make sure she’s getting her daily nutrients?
**TL;DR; : This is a sample summary of the TLDR rule, all things are bold. Is this going the right way?**.
Currently in a 3 year relationship and live together (both late twenties). GF wants an engagement by the end of year but I’ve expressed numerous times about how I love her but getting married is a different. And I won’t be with someone forever and if im not unsatisfied with certain things. Below are things I expressed.
- both in decent shape and no sex. She doesn’t initiate and if I do it’s not the right time.
-She doesn’t know how to cook so it always ends up with me cooking or us eating out.
-Doesn’t listen. I’m not talking in a way of “do what I say” it’s more of any advice is given she’s not trying to hear it.
- she’s more selfish than selfless. She’s a loving person but not a lover.
- financially, I pay majority of the bills and buy the groceries but I get looked down when money is tight. Although she can save (for herself) and blows it on clothes or etc.
I feel like in these 3 years I’ve changed who I was to fit her needs but I haven’t got that back. In all, I do love her and her personality but forever is a long time. I don’t want to look at the relationship as “transactional” but at the end of the day you’re building a life with someone and I don’t want it to be one sided.