u/AppleEaterForever

I have two older siblings that are ten years older than me, and living their life. And unfortunately life hit me like a rock where im single parent and i have to care for this parent.

Ive watched my mom cry, fight, and battle my dad. And i know my dad is unfaithful. My dad has a gf in the city he pays for her shop, and ive seen with my own eyes this.

Is it bad that i want to cut ties with my mom? She always prioritizes my brother. Im the youngest daughter, and hes the middle son, but its always been him.him.him.

Plus before she got dialysis, the doctor has warned her multiple if not quintuple times to take care of herself and she never did which is why shes on dialysis.

And we’ve warn her multiple times, but now its taken a toll on our normal life.

And im not going to lie, ive fcking ***** her for it.

**EDIT : my dad pays for her insurance, and ive caught my dad with said mistress.

My ex husband moved to TX a year ago, and his family are planning to move there soon bc they get paid well i guess.

Im in California, and my daughter has been telling me the past two months her dad and family want her to move to Texas for a “year” but i told him no.

Ive told him im comfortable with her going to texas for summer break but other than that nothing more than the two month summer break.

My biggest fear is her going out there and she ends up wanting to stay there.

Dad and i dont have any legal issues, we’ve both agreed on 50/50 and hes not on child support (although i should put him on when he makes way more than me).

What can i do? Its affecting me mentally bc i dont want her to go at all but she wants to go.