IRA pull before retirement question.
like lots of people, I have had some outstanding gains in my (rollover Charles Schwab) IRA over the past few years.
and also like lots of people, I have been engineered to never touch my IRA under any circumstances before retirement.
I'm looking for a perspective from someone willing to think outside that box.
my aging parent is in a multi-year cancer battle without any resources, and having some liquidity could really smooth this final chapter for the whole family (travel costs, funeral costs, etc).
Because I would be taking a disbursement before retirement age, I'm looking at a 10% ding. I also live in a no income tax state (Texas). When I look at the cost to access that $ vs, the super gains, etc it just doesn't seem like such an awful cost.
anyone here done this? any perspective that I'm missing?
(I'm in my late 40's, FIRE-ish, own my house and car outright, no kids, etc)
appreciate any feedback.