u/Appropriate-Tap6772

I have a boudoir session scheduled for early October and I’m trying to find an outfit to wear! I decided on doing the stripper pole set and I want an outfit that is sexy and looks like it belongs in a strip club or on a pole dancer, but something that is also flattering on someone who is self conscious about their stomach. I’m thinking about a simple bra and thong panty but adding a garter belt with thigh straps or a leg wrap. Still debating on if I want heels or not, but what do y’all think? I love the strappy look (hence why I want the garter belt connecting to thigh straps, or a leg wrap). I was looking at the SYRN Skirting Around Garter Skirt as a possibility but I’m just so undecided and not sure if a skirt is the right way to go!

So, I am recently engaged and I really want to have at least a few bridesmaids, maybe 3? But I feel like I have no one to ask. I’m not super close with any female friends or female family members. My fiancé has around 3 men he wants to ask, but I feel like I have no one. I was maybe planning on asking my brother to be my man of honor but I don’t know who else I would choose. I just want people who would be special to me and not just some coworkers I enjoy. I would ask my brother’s wife.. I was a bridesmaid in her wedding since my brother wanted me in the wedding party, but we aren’t close. Should I lower my standards a bit? What advice would you give? I’m down for some non traditional ideas since I already might use my brother as my man of honor.. I just don’t know what to do.

Edit: My fiancé doesn’t have any siblings and really only has a relationship with a few family members, so no one I can use from his side.

Boudoir Outfit

Wedding Party Help