r/LingerieAddiction

I have a boudoir shoot coming up and I have a hand full of outfits planned. One niche that I want to fill though, I cant find a suitable set of lingerie for. I want to look like a nymph. In my mind it's white (could also be a pastel or natural green though), lace, embroidery, and possibly ruffles. There should be elements of nature if possible. It should seem delicate and natural. Not too sexy but still showing a lot of skin (if that makes any sense?). The closest thing I have found is Victoria secrets daisy chain bra but it still feels like its missing something. Does anybody know of any brands that give off this vibe? Preferably a brand that isnt going to run me broke. I could definitely use help from the experts here!

My boyfriend has expressed interest in investing in some lingerie so I can dress up for him. My look is definitely more "alternative" and he likes it, so I figure I should lean into that and I'm hoping someone could point me in the direction of some good online retailers.

Last I checked I'm a 38C and wear medium sized panties, so places that cater to plus-sized ladies might not work for me

How soft are the mesh/embroidery/ribbon straps?
On the high-leg string, is one of the white cats’ tail at the front always cut off or does it depend on the sizing or even the individual item?
I wanted to buy because of the cute appearance & because they’re on sale right now but I haven’t tried this brand before. Are they generally comfortable to wear?

Is there a SubReddit anywhere that shows pics of lingerie, review by wearer and is browsable by type?

Idea would be to Post a pic of the lingerie, and include details like type, brand, collection, size, and ratings by the user for things like

- comfort/fit

- quality/longevity

- cost/value (in relation to quality)

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Example post:

[User uploads pic]

Collection: La Soirée (inc: bra, garter, panties)

Brand: Mimi Holliday

Set cost: $145 USD

Size shown: 36B, Medium

9/10 Comfort/Fit rating

9/10 Quality rating

9/10 Cost/Value rating

+ any extra commentary welcomed.. like when acquired, is functional daily or just for fun/event wear, favorite thing about it, etc.

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Goals for this would be a centrally located R&D of lingerie styles, fashion, brands, transparency about fit and quality reviews, etc. Would need strong moderation & community to make sure it doesn’t trend sexual.

Curious if this already exists anywhere, and if not, whether there are fellow lingerie fashionistas who would enjoy this kind of content/feed??

im gifting my boyfriend some of my panties ( dont ask!) and im wondering whats the sexist or cutest kind of panties? i LOVE lace and pastel colours , any ideas!?

Curious because I know some people are insanely organized with theirs.

Hi all! I recently got an ad on instagram for savage x fenty for a cute set and went to purchase but at the bottom of the checkout screen there was a ca warning for lead and carcinogens??? i didn't realize that this was something i had to be worried about with my clothing. are there any brands that definitely use it / definitely don't? i do not want that touching my skin for such prolonged periods of time and now i'm nervous. please help!

Over the last couple of years I have lost 130lbs - I’m now down to a UK size 10 (US size 6) and finally feeling confident enough to get back into the dating world… except that I have loose skin hanging on my belly and my boobs are so saggy now… I would really like to get some crotchless bodysuits so I can feel feel confident in the bedroom by hiding the skin hanging on my belly and giving my boobs some support and not having to get fully naked which just makes me want to panic… all of the options I can find online though seem to have little to no support on the boobs and are all see through which would mean you would still see the roll of loose skin and it would defeat the purpose… anyone have any recommendations of brands that I can look at which would have what I want? - particularly anything available in the UK… 🙏🏻

ETA: I have some photos to show what I mean/demonstrate what it is I need but it doesn’t seem that I am able to put them in here… unless I’m just being a bit dumb?

I feel like a lot of lingerie marketing still assumes women want to look like polished fantasy objects.

But the sets I actually save lately all feel darker / softer / stranger somehow.

More:

“melancholy art film”

“girl in a hotel room at 2am”

“romance with emotional damage”

Less:

Playboy energy

hyper-perfected influencer posing

I recently found a smaller brand that leans into this really well. Lots of black mesh, muted styling, low-saturation photography.

It feels more like atmosphere than seduction.

Curious if anyone else has recommendations in this aesthetic category because I feel like mainstream lingerie brands still market like it’s 2016.

So I have a bit of a panty shopping addiction. I just counted I have a little bit more than 500 panties and an order for more on the way.

Long story….Longer. What are you all doing to keep your panty drawer smelling fun and sexy especially since it might be a few days till I work my way to the ones in the back lol

What do people think of the three black swimsuits/bikinis they just released? Have they done swimsuits before?

I feel like most lingerie brands kinda miss the mark on swimsuits and they end up looking more bikini than lingerie - like, if I wanted to buy a swimsuit from a lingerie company I want to look like I'm wearing a full set

Just wanted to talk to people about it - the designs look interesting and unique but what does LA think?

I finally got a chance to wear my new stockings from Calzedonia. No garter belt required; the lace top has silicone lining. It‘s warm today, so I waited to pop them on at the last minute. I opened the package, pulled them out and—can’t get the open! At the tops, the gummy stuff on one side is stuck to the gummy stuff on the other. Any suggestions on how to get them apart without ruining the hosiery or the lace?

I swear lingerie reviews are either:

• “This made me feel like a goddess.” or
• “I accidentally engineered a Victorian torture device.”

There is absolutely no middle ground.

Some personal favorites I’ve seen:

“The lace was cute but my left boob escaped during dinner like it had unfinished business.”

“Ordered seductive. Received emotional damage.”“This thong disappeared so far into my body I briefly understood string theory.”

“The underwire snapped mid-date and suddenly I was in a low-budget action movie.”

I need more of these.
Please drop the funniest, most unhinged, most accidentally poetic lingerie reviews you’ve ever read or written.

Bonus points if:

• the review sounded like a Yelp review for a haunted house
• someone compared shapewear to medieval armor
• the bra developed a personality
• the product photos committed crimes against reality

I’m convinced lingerie reviews are one of the internet’s last surviving art forms.

My wife has began to amass an impressive collection of lingerie. But it’s spread out across multiple doors (and with sets scattered with parts in each drawer). She spends a lot of time searching for things she knows she has, but that she can’t find in the moment.

TLDR: it’s currently all just shoved into drawers and I’d like to do the solid of… making it all organized for her.

The ask—

I need help with ideas, designs, products or tbd?? so that I can plan a big surprise weekend where I overhaul her drawers and make her gush over her closet and collection.

I have no idea about any of this stuff.. apart from R&D’d lingerie wash bags about a year ago because really expensive and nice sets were getting ruined in the wash commingled with jeans and towels.

Pls help. She loves her lingerie (and I do too!) but she’s hesitant to keep buying it bc she says it gets messed up in the drawers!!

PS if it’s okay, pls feel free to DM or post any pics you have of your drawer/closet setup. I’m a visual learner so the inspo is huge 🙏

As stated… Has anybody bought from bluebella recently? And what did you think of the quality? Specifically for every day wear? I am saying this as I bought the marina bra a few years ago and whilst it looked very pretty it was very flimsily made and I ended up selling it. I’m hoping it might have been a fluke as some of the styles on their website are very pretty.

I’m all for underwear looking pretty but it has to be suitable for every day wear. i’m about a 36D-DD so some support will be crucial.

anyway let me know your thoughts…

I feel like crappy person for this but like, going out of business sales are great (kinda). Everything's super cheap and the store can clear out the inventory they need to?
Plus I just got measured for my new size and I reallly want something cute

Hi all! Has anyone one received any of their tier gifts with the honey club and what they are? I’m close to the next tier so I’m just curious what gifts they offer!