Problem with dating Samael

I asked him on a date 3 weeks ago, in spring. Now it is summer and he has not showed up for a date yet. He's the last one I need to collect date!

I can't ask him again and other townsfolk are already talking about us, are commenting on us dating. So the game thinks we are dating but we can't kiss nor go on dates.

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u/Argema-Mittrei — 12 days ago
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~6 month progress. I feel like I'm doing well!

I also love the fact that the new one only took me 2 more hours than the old one. I'm proud of myself!

u/Argema-Mittrei — 13 days ago

Before and after reading Drawing On The Right Side Of The Brain. Roughly one month apart.

Ngl, drawing the distortion my glasses cause to my face was hard.

u/Argema-Mittrei — 1 month ago

Unlocking Luna Bay question

Ludo picked me up so I can go through the hole as a hellkitten and I met the three mermaids who told me about the log blocking their way. Then I went down to Luna's farm where the log is and tried to use the tree moving spell, but it says I can't do that there. Am I doing something wrong? Is this not the right log?

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u/Argema-Mittrei — 1 month ago

Why does one heart appear to be "locked"?

I have the same amount of hearts with Mina but hers are just fine.

u/Argema-Mittrei — 2 months ago

What colour are albino dolphins?

I've seen pink and white, so I wonder why two options exist or is the pink one a special dolphin species?

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u/Argema-Mittrei — 2 months ago

Will I enjoy the game if I don't like roguelikes?

I've had my eyes on the game for a very long time now, it looks super fun and I enjoy watching the trailers, but the description mentions it is a roguelike. Which makes me hesitate on getting it. Would I still be able to have fun if I don't enjoy roguelikes? I love everything else about what the game seems to offer, but this information makes me wonder if I'll end up letting it collect dust.

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u/Argema-Mittrei — 3 months ago

Dusting Nendoroids after literal years

I have me/cfs and have not been able to dust my nendoroids in a few years. I just dusted off this one and wanted to ask if it looks damaged? I know the shine from my flashlight is normal but I'm more worried about the shiny spots sprinkled all over the head. Or is that normal and I never noticed before? I feel so bad and am worried that all my figures are ruined now.

u/Argema-Mittrei — 3 months ago
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How to upgrade from Prime to Tier 3?

When I try to do it on the browser, it tells me to do it on my android devide. However, my android device does not give me the option either.

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u/Argema-Mittrei — 4 months ago
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Apple pencil problems after update?

My iPad finally forced me to update and I am now on OS 26.5

I am an artist and haven't noticed any problems with my pencil before, though ever since I've updated, I noticed that the warning for only 10% on the pencil keeps popping up after only a few hours of use.

I decided to look at it while charging today and it is only charging to 48%, then stops even though it says it is still charging. Whenever I restart the ipad/let it forget the pencil and reattach it, it charges another 1%-2% then stops.

Could this be due to the new update or did my pencil just die on me? It's only two years old.

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u/Argema-Mittrei — 4 months ago

Do I need to realise I am the abuser and narcissist?

This is going to be a very vulnerable post and I have no idea if anyone will read this, but I'd love your input. When I was 24 I met a 32 year old man online who was a small streamer and we started texting privately relatively quickly. He asked me to do so. He was kind, so we quickly talked more and more. There were moments during the first few weeks that I ignored, such as him forcing me to describe how I want him to please me sexually over the phone or that he said he knows how to look at people/talk to them to make them like him. He told me he never felt like this with anyone before and confessed his love to me at the end of the year on new years. I'm asexual so I declined and we stayed friends. Over the years he told me he was disabled, raped and many other stories who later then turned out to be lies (or maybe not? Because I have no idea what to believe at this point). I was always supportive of him, used my creativity for presents and little suprises! And so on. I put a lot of effort into this relationship.

I have to say that I am quite sick. I have me/cfs, pots, anxiety and depression. So he was my only friend. Which he knew and I always told him it would be okay to leave if he couldn’t handle it. As time went on, he kept being supportive of my interests and even my gender identity but.. he also always left me hanging and ignored my needs, regarding my health especially. Whenever I told him he hurt me, he told me he doesn't believe in blame and that he would never hurt me/it was never his intention to hurt me. After my autism diagnosis, he started treating me like a child and when he hurt me, he told me 'this is what people do' in order to let me know that I just don't get it because I'm autistic. He also said he wasn't treating me any differently or like a child. On the other hand, he started buying me tons of gifts. Some he sent me, most he kept at home and never sent out. Including things I bought with my own money and sent to his address because it could only be delivered to his country.

He kept hurting me (emotionally), kept breaking promises, the lies kept confusing me that I.. broke. And I kept breaking until I broke nearly every single day. I always ended up crying, ended up begging for the truth and to be loved. He was always the only one who could stop the pain too. Though on the other hand I called him names in those moments and even hurt myself a couple times out of pure panic (not to punish him but in an attempt to make my pain visible because I wanted to be seen). In the end I also blocked him a lot and ghosted him for periods of time.. because I couldn't take the pain, I didn't want him to hurt me and I needed to calm myself down until I could fix it all again. I genuinely thought I was a monster which I told him, I told him I know I am at fault and I always begged for forgiveness. Which is what abusers do, right? He definitely has a lot of proof of how crazy I am while he always remained calm. And in the end, everything he did bothered me. As if my body was trying to tell me to run. He told me he needs me to be his friend and that I need to be a better person too. All while he never looked up any of my illnesses to make an effort because I was supposed to help him be good and if he made a mistake it was because I failed to educate him. Repeatedly. Yet.. I still always came back because it hurt to be away from him. He was my whole world while I was just a tiny part of his. It also hurt to be with him. I clung to the good times.. thought I could fix it if only I changed.

I've never acted liked this before and I am ashamed of myself. Just with one other person (not to this extent) in my teens who everyone said was abusive towards me. But maybe I was also an abuser back then? A lot of my friendships ended but never with a big fight. We just lost interest and stopped talking, I hate fighting, I hate discussions yet.. it kept happening and I hated it. All of it.

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u/Argema-Mittrei — 5 months ago

Once or twice a year, I get these phantom smells. They smell like oranges and usually last for one to two weeks before they vanish again. During those episodes, the smell isn't constant but often enough that it bothers me when I take a breath in through my nose. It also peaks after a few days and becomes so strong that it causes nausea and I can taste it on the tip of my tongue too, which makes it feel weird and a bit sore as if I'd kept rubbing it against the retainer on the back of my teeth for hours. It is also often accompanied by headaches. My brain fog (from me/CFS and POTS) can get worse during those episodes but I never feel like I am missing what's going on, it's just annoying to be honest.

What could this be? Migraine related, seizure activity? I'm honestly a bit scared. It's been happening for years now but I can't get an appointment with a neurologist no matter how hard I try. They keep telling me to call again in a few months or that they can't accept new patients. My family has history of migraines (grandfather, mother, younger sister) but no history of seizures.

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u/Argema-Mittrei — 6 months ago

Once or twice a year, I get these phantom smells. They smell like oranges and usually last for one to two weeks before they vanish again. During those episodes, the smell isn't constant but often enough that it bothers me when I take a breath in through my nose. It also peaks after a few days and becomes so strong that it causes nausea and I can taste it on the tip of my tongue too, which makes it feel weird and a bit sore as if I'd kept rubbing it against the retainer on the back of my teeth for hours. It is also often accompanied by headaches.

What could this be? Migraine related, seizure activity? I'm honestly a bit scared. It's been happening for years now but I can't get an appointment with a neurologist no matter how hard I try. They keep telling me to call again in a few months or that they can't accept new patients. My family has history of migraines (grandfather, mother, younger sister) but no history of seizures.

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u/Argema-Mittrei — 6 months ago