AITAH for not responding in the kindness way to my gay friend.
I M14, my friend M15, have been friends since we were 7 (he was 8.) I know he was “bi” and he knows Im completely gay, it’s never came in the way of our friendship until a few months ago…
I can’t remember what month it was but it was either
February or the start of 2026, he started getting clinger with me then he use to be. I mind and kinda liked it, until he started getting jealous… Everytime I talked to one of my other friends he’d look a little upset, probably cause I wasn’t giving him attention. But when I let my other friends touch me, he’d pull me away, not in a way that would hurt me but he’d grab my waist and pull me away. I thought it was a normal touch for friends but he did this a lot and it started getting annoying.
It’s summer break in canada now. We were hanging out at his place to have a sleepover, when we’re alone he’s fine and only touches me a lot. Well we got bored and he suggested we have some of his parents beer, I hesitated but agreed and followed him downstairs. He opened the liquor we cabinet and offered me a bottle, I ended up rejecting it and watched him chug half a bottle. I asked if his parents would find out he said no. I asked if he’s done this before, he said once.
We went back to his room and it was fine for a bit as we watched movie. But a bit later he grabbed my jaw and forced me to kiss him, it was at least five minutes and I kept trying to pull back, When he finally did I got up and left. (We live close.)
I think I actually like him but I don’t know what to do after this. I think it was the alcohol but Ive also been ghosting him. Someone help.