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im more happy/comfy not knowing where I am on the Aro spec for the past few months I’ve been questioning and spiraling it a lottt 😭 like that was high key the HARDEST thing I have thought about in my life especially the fact that what I’m feeling is very ignored by a lot of society than me being bisexual and Girlflu/fluid. but Im done with that shit!! I’m still aroallo, idk where I am on the spec but I’m happier just not knowing!

Haiiii!!!! So the majority of the kinds of characters I wish to cosplay have short/straight-ish ahh hair but I low-key have the opposite. (mines like wavy and calf length) im thinking about maybe trying wigs for those characters who have shorter hair than me but I’m worried if it will not go as good or ends up really fucked up looking 😭 the only character I’m thinking of cosplaying where I kinda wanna use my OWN hair is a more human-turtle hybrid of Mikey from ROTTMNT (I feel like he kinda would also have hair in a similar length as mine and a lot of the Mikey’s are pretty hippie coded lmfao. and I also kinda headcanon him as gender-fluid??) but idk if it would actually work in general low-key.

ive been having a pretty rough time trying to look for aro media/representation thats good 😭 does anyone have recs?