u/Artistic-Amount7142

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Falling in love with an INTP?

I've been talking to this INTP for a bit (I'm an INFJ), and it might sound really corny, but we actually met through a game. You know, the usual basic story.

The first thing he asked me about was the old Spider-Man movies. From there, we started talking about our different perspectives on movies and other things. I felt like the whole conversation was pretty flirty in a way. It was basically just two nerds talking and getting along. We eventually talked about MBTI, and he told me he was an INTP. At the end of the conversation, he clearly wanted to add me on social media so we could keep talking.

After that, we started talking and calling almost every night. At first, I felt like I was matching a lot of his energy, especially when he would make silly little attacks about my "poor" movie choices. But after a while, I became more relaxed around him while also becoming more shy, and I'm not really sure why. I felt relaxed enough to be myself, but at the same time, I was slowly becoming intimidated by how much he seemed to know about everything.

Most of our conversations were about his interests and the things he liked. Part of the reason was that I didn't want to open up too quickly. I wasn't sure yet if I could trust him enough to share a lot about myself, and I also didn't want to overwhelm him or feel like I was bothering him.

Today, we called while he was just going through his daily routine in a simple game he plays every day. He was showing me the game, but throughout most of the call, he was basically talking to himself and didn't really include me in the conversation. I did talk a little, but not much mostly just short comments here and there.

At some point, I started feeling awkward because I was wondering, How does he not notice that I'm barely talking? He didn't really seem to acknowledge it or try to include me. Toward the end of the call, he had to go to bed, and the conversation had become really dry.

I was typing something to him, but I wasn't sure whether I should actually send it. I didn't realize he could see that I was typing, but I guess he noticed me hesitating because he suddenly asked, in a pretty dry way, "What?"

I ended up asking him why he had been acting like that and explained how I felt left out during the call. But by the end of the conversation, it felt like he was basically saying that I wasn't talking and even accusing me of being on my phone. I wasn't on my phone, so I don't understand why he seemed so sure that I was.

Now I don't really know what to think about the whole situation.

Another thing I'm confused about is that he often makes slightly sexual comments. For example, yesterday he randomly said something along the lines of, "I get that I have a big dick a lot." 

So now I'm wondering: does this mean he's actually interested in me, or could he just be interested in me sexually? Because I genuinely can't tell whether he's flirting because he likes me or whether he's just making sexual comments for fun/attention.

I'll answer anything, but I really need someone's opinion on the matter! Thank you so much in advance!