how to communicate in a non-triggering way?
hi everyone
so its not about me but a friend I have. She struggles with BDD since I remember and I feel like no matter what I say she can turn it around on herself or as a critique. I'd like to help her, but I'm not sure how I can communicate my concerns to her without triggering the disorder. How can I even make her realize she's struggling with it? She believes her body is ugly and has to fix it by starving herself with "healthy" diets and then binging for weeks. Everything accompanied by deep shame and guilt. She's starting to become more and more weak too from this cycle. She also projects her insecurities onto others including children.
I've sent her some resources and she even started going to therapy once a month (for a different problem) but it breaks my heart to see her suffer and hate herself. I want to ask gentle questions and just help her figure things out without pushing her too much.. if anyone has any methods of communicating with people with BDD I'm all ears..