u/Artistic_Play-

Hii all idk if this is the right sub to ask this but I am having a lot of doubts ki if I like a girl and usse baat kr raha hu than what should be the line jisko I shouldn't cross like shuru mein when u meet some one and they are clearly of ur type and u want to know everything about her but ldkiya bhaut dhere dhere open up hoti hai and u should stay with her but kab tk....

And one more Q like if I want to be friend with a girl

Like just friends not relationship but how do I...

Like when I approach them then I just came off as ki I'm interested in her trying to make a girlfriend wgera but I don't want that I just want a genuine friendship?

So how should I approach girl just for friendship like future mein pyaar vyaar ho jaye tho ptani but abhi I feel I don't have time for all this...

I’m a 19M and recently had a short conversation with a girl in my college. I found her really attractive and she seems to have a nice, calm vibe, but I don’t actually know her yet.

I’m not trying to rush anything or jump straight into saying I like her. I’d rather just get to know her properly first and see if something develops naturally.

The problem is I’ve become pretty quiet lately because I mostly focus on studying. I feel like I’m not as social or interesting as I used to be, so I sometimes struggle with conversations and don’t know what to say.

I’d appreciate some advice on:

How to naturally start talking to her more often

Good ways to keep conversations going in the early stage

How to come across as genuine instead of trying too hard

How to build attraction?

Just looking for practical advice on how to handle this situation better.

All my friends are in relationships and ngl it gives me FOMO.

I get male attention, but attention ≠ trust. Guys flirt, say the right things, but how do you know who’s genuine and who just wants access to you?

I used to fall for looks, and I still think attraction matters, but now I care more about whether a guy is emotionally mature, real, has goals, and good intentions. My problem is — how do you figure that out before getting attached?

Girls, how do you decide:

who to trust and who to keep distance from?

when a guy is serious vs just impressing you?

when to allow someone in?

when it’s the right time for a relationship?

Also be honest how much do looks matter vs personality? I don’t believe looks mean nothing, but how much importance do you give them?

And what are your real green flags that make you think “this guy is genuine”?

No morally correct answers please, be brutal and real. Guys can answer too what do you do when you’re serious about a girl?

Want honest opinions.