Struggling With Scope Of Plot
I've written a few NaNoWriMo-sized things over the years, but for most of my adult life, my writing exercises have been as a game master/dungeon master. I've led roleplay in a variety of formats, done tons of worldbuilding on large and small scales, etc. I have to slap myself on the wrist sometimes and remind myself to write stories and not encyclopedias.
My problem is that I face a disconnect with the types of settings I build and the stories that I get inspired to tell. For example, I'll flesh out a world capable of supporting a sweeping epic, with unique magical systems and fantastical geographical features, but the story ideas that grab hold of me wind up being narrowly focused on interpersonal issues and not the world at large. I recently started working on an idea surrounding a girl who wants to leave her tiny hometown and pursue her dream of attending a magic academy on the other side of the world. Sounds like a good start, right? It's got a reason to travel and grow as a person built right it. And the "B Plot" would revolve around her relationship with her childhood best friend and resolving her feelings toward him conflicting with her fear of being tied down and stuck in their hometown for the rest of her life.
I very quickly realized my B Plot summary was 5x longer than my A Plot summary and was absolutely where 99% of the meat of the story was. The obviously solution feels like "well then write a non-fantasy will-they-won't-they", but I hate that solution. I want to write a sweeping fantasy with huge political elements, like the stories I most enjoy reading.
Has anyone else struggled with mismatches between what they want to write and what they naturally gravitate toward writing?