u/AsleepDance7514

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24F LF friends

Looking for platforms to meet new people and make friends becos I’m currently not attending social events much as compared to before, so hoping to get some genuine friends from here?

Keen to chat & hangout (NOT text buddies) I’m ok with either 1 to 1 or small group hangouts to take off the pressure as I’m an introvert

I’m 24, sg chi & looking for frens around my age! I like to hunt for good food, travel, and possibly get back to the gym? The closer we get, the weirder and more unhinged fun I’ll be I guess 🤣 I wna hangout n do some fun activities tgtt

Pls drop a message with intro of yourself, & text if you want to be genuine long lasting friends who will put in the effort, and no toxic drama ppl 🆗 ❕

@girls I can be your future bridesmaid too 😊✨

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u/AsleepDance7514 — 12 days ago

9 Aug - watch party

Anyone here can host a ndp watch party? Like if you have a place or event space lol anywhere with functioning tv will do. I high key also wanna sing ktv to ndp songs so if got ktv set or mics would be good. Just like a chill hangout watch party on 9 Aug! I think it can be rly fun, just see if anyone down for it

If anyone is hosting somewhere can invite me? I rly wan to join a watch party (preferably with a small grp of ppl)

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u/AsleepDance7514 — 2 months ago

Double date?

Yo just wondering why is it such a norm that guys on dating apps will swipe u, but almost never text u first, never initiate, convos dry as hell, and 0 effort seen to keep the convo gg or asking u questions to know more about u?

Cos I js experienced it and why isit only ppl on dating app and why r u even on the app in the first place then?

Also tryna do a double or group date thing, if ure between 23-28, male/female, single and decent good looking, ACTIVELY looking or open to look for a partner as of now, please let me know so I can try to arrange a group or double date for us :) I’ve been curious to try this out

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u/AsleepDance7514 — 3 months ago
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Random thoughts

Is anyone guilty of looking up your past primary and secondary sch mates on LinkedIn? Now that we are all adults / older and don’t keep in contact anymore. One day u suddenly remember the few pri or sch sch ppl in your class and just wna know what they r doing now or maybe reconnect with them?

Im guilty 🤣 if i type out their name on IG I cant find I go LinkedIn LOL. But tbh some of them dont give me pleasant memories even rmb this one girl who is so fake and cocky i wonder if she’s the same now (if she can be like that in PRI sch imagine now) It’s weird that I can even rmb their full names it’s like etched in my memory but some of them cant rmb clearly how they look or they might look different now.

Ps. During my era it was still flip phones, first phone during P6 only. Kids have it good these days, can js keep in contact w classmates ENVY sia I wan find my kindergarten friend also dk how find.

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u/AsleepDance7514 — 3 months ago
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random yaps

Does anyone else here feel like u hvnt met your people yet, and wanna find them?
If you realise you are always the one initiating plans, showing enthusiasm and excitement for future plans, researching & finding things to do and trying to convince friends to go with tgt, yet they don’t share the same excitement as u.. or quite nonchalant/meh about it, bringing down your mood.
Feels like ur always restless, wna find fun things to do, and hv spontaneous energy but no one can rly match that energy of yours, leaving you feeling drained or abit sad.

For context I am abit of ADHD so I can get rly excited about plans or things I wanna do and always love to jio my frens, but they just never seem to share the same excitement or that onz about things. Hence I wanna meet my kind of people who can relate and just do things together (and share the same crazy energy) like “omg yes let’s do it” “let’s go! When!” “Let’s book it rn” “I’ll go with you” “you go I go”

I got told before that I am “too much” or people have made me felt I am too spontaneous before and that I have to “tone down” (because I wanted to do many things & jio for a lot of things. But I only have a few friends and I don’t have others to jio HAHA) And I don’t appreciate others who make me feel small or weird just bcos I’m more spontaneous and want more fun in my life/ do things together to create memories and shared experiences. It’s my personality and it can’t be changed and I don’t want to dim my sparkle for people who don’t get it. I just want to find my group of people who get it ykwim, I don’t even wanna please everyone or be everyone’s friend. I just want my own people. People who can understand me, make me feel seen and heard, acknowledge my excitement and desire to do things together instead of thinking I am “too much”. Or even better, be even more crazy than me

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u/AsleepDance7514 — 3 months ago

Make friends

Bored la let’s make friends go out touch some grass, go to playground do jumping jacks then come home have a movie marathon while snacking. HAHAHAHA funny ya but just looking to make some legit genuine friends here or at least form some connections that can last longer than my past rs. 💀🤣
24F here! Come text me! (State ur gender & age on intro)

No weirdos, no creeps, no bots, no ingenuine intentions allowed!

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u/AsleepDance7514 — 3 months ago
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looking for Jb trip kakis

Hihi I am finding friends to go JB with in August!
Females in their 20s preferred, F here too.
can eat, shop, massage, escape room (if we r staying over few days) ~ I’m going there mainly for wellness and girly maintenance stuff! & I plan to stayover for a few days

any girlies pls hmuu!! Idm guys if we have a grp with both genders

(no im not a bot)

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u/AsleepDance7514 — 3 months ago