u/AssignmentThen9237

due to poor mental health(death in the family), i failed my first year of cuny and was placed on academic probation. the dean drew up a contract that i must take one class on campus and pass and i failed again when my mom was diagnosed with cancer. i don't get financial aid because of my poor grades so i want to continue my academic career at a community college(queensborough specifically). i don't have any credits because i failed all my classes. do i apply as a freshman? what do i do about my academic probation if i failed to uphold the contract?

for context, this year was supposed to be my second year of ccny. for my first year i struggled terribly with mental health problems and worked too much to manage my school life. after that, i did a semester online where i continued to struggle. my dog got sick and i had to take care of her, and work to pay her medical bills off. i failed both semesters and was put on academic hold. i took a semester off hoping things would get better and they did for a bit. i met with the counselor and she said i could only take one class, english 110, and i HAD to pass. I had to pay for this out of pocket because i lost my fafsa so i had to work a lot. my mom has cancer now and i have to do most of the housework when i am not working or in school. i am failing again and i don't know what to do. i don't want to drop out.

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