Why partners/others are romantically obsessed with you
Every fortnight (perhaps even more frequent than that) there'll be posts in astrology subs that are inquiring about the subject matter indicated. Before I get into explaining this through astrology, I want to throw a disclaimer: this post is not making an excuse for any extreme obsession by partners/others, rather it's purposed to alert you about the magnetic placements that you may not be aware of, and that the placements are what they are regardless of your dismissal/unawareness of their impact
First and foremost, the person who is obsessing over you may just be a possessive/obsessive/controlling person: those placements will be outlined in another post, but this is about YOU the recipient of said obsession, not the giver.
The ultimate answer is that most of you aren't aware of how attractive/magnetic you are. I can just stop there but that won't be fair so let's get into further astrological specifics
1️⃣Typical scorpio placements
The common interpretation of scorpio is the sign that governs the genitals: both medical and natal astrology associate that sign to sex in a lot of ways. People that have strong scorpio placements give off an intense sexual aura even though they don't mean to come across like that. (such strong placements can also make the person seem flirtatious even when they aren't) by "strong scorpio placements" I mean the following:
(b)scorpio stellium (involved planets should be within 3° of each other, otherwise the more split apart they are, the weaker the stellium) (c)The ascendant in scorpio (the big 3, or at least 2 out of your big 3, in scorpio is a stronger placement than just the ascendant alone)
As vain/superficial as it sounds for that to be a factor of obsession: it should be acknowledged that it's not a common thing (for those who require such a partner) to find a bedroom that barely loses its spark
*people with strong scorpio placements will note very positive feedback about them when it comes to the bedroom. Some mates can find them to be too centralized on sensual/sexual encounters, but that's another topic altogether.
2️⃣The 5th and 8th houses
The 5th house is about recreation/hobbies/recreation/entertainment/leisure/pleasures, hence it's also associated with one's children and sexual escapades. On the other hand the 8th house practically belongs to scorpio so the aforementioned traits of scorpio are also applied there. People that have a stellium in one or both houses not only exude sexual aura, they also get very positive feedback in the bedroom
(b)People with 5H and/or 8H stellium + Sun/ascendant/Moon in Leo/scorpio are an upper tier of the above
(c)those with sun/moon in either or both houses + Leo/scorpio Ascendant are also likely to have a sensual/sexual vibe, hence draw attachment/obsession from others
(d)People with a Leo stellium also exude same traits
3️⃣Placements that suggest beauty (or/and pleasant personality)
Venus is associated with good looks: venus' strong alignments to mercury and the ascendant gift a person with beauty and/or a pleasant personality, especially when the chart has placements between mercury-ascendant-venus. It should be noted that planets behave differently depending on the sign they're in and their aspects to other planets, so some people with Venus-Asc placement will exude more beauty than others with the same placement..
(ii)There are also other ascendant placements that also suggests certain body structures that would be alluring for others, but anatomy/physiology is in the genre of medical astrology which is a topic for another day
4️⃣ Potency of planets on/near the MC
The bottom 180° of a chart is where planets are least active, compared to the top 180°, especially the part that the MC encompasses, which is the most potent part of a chart. Planets that are on/near the MC have the most influence in one's life because that is the highest point of the chart, therefore people with the following placements on/near the MC will be very attractive: (a)venus (especially in exaltation/rulership) (b)planets in scorpio (c)planets in Leo