u/Atharv_102

Sometimes I really wonder why finding someone feels so difficult. First, I looked for a relationship, but most people seemed confused about what they actually wanted. Then I thought maybe casual hookups would be easier, but honestly, I found a lot of people rude, immature, or just emotionally unavailable. And now even genuine friendships feel hard to find.

For me, it’s never been about numbers or constant attention - it’s always about the right person. Someone who is genuinely willing to understand me, while also letting me understand them.

Real connection, effort, and emotional honesty matter more than anything else.

So yeah, I’m still waiting for that person who’s truly invested in building something meaningful. Let’s see how long destiny decides to test my patience 😂

Let me give my basic intro as well 😅 I’m 24, from India, bottom, 5'11, slim, sleek, smooth, and fair. Thought I should be upfront about how I look, so nobody feels surprised later after getting attached to the conversation 🤣

Still trying, even after all the ghosting 😆

So, I wanted to start somewhere, and I thought… why not start with reality? 😅

Most of us come to platforms like this hoping that maybe, just maybe, we’ll find our prince or princess — someone with whom we can create all those flawless moments we keep watching in reels and movies. And honestly, these platforms do give that space. But in the end, it all depends on people.

My experience? People come, talk for a few days… sometimes just a few hours… and then disappear like they never existed 😆. Funny thing is, the same people often talk about loyalty, trust, effort, and “real connections.” Hypocrisy at its peak 😂

I genuinely don’t understand one thing if you’re not trustworthy or consistent yourself, how can you expect loyalty from someone else?

At this point, I’ve kind of trained my mind to assume that everyone I interact with will eventually ghost me 😅. And somehow, most of them prove it right.

But still… I’m here, trying again. Maybe one day I’ll find someone genuine. Someone like me, who still believes connections matter enough to write posts like this 😂

And the funny part is, most of them say things like “you’re cute,” “you sound so good on call,” or “you’re genuinely nice to talk to” 😅 but even after that, they still disappear. Sometimes I genuinely feel people themselves don’t know what they’re actually looking for… confused souls with good compliments, I guess 😂