What's been your experience with stylish men?
Picture this:
A man walks into a public space and he clearly puts thought into how he presents himself.
Maybe he's wearing a well-fitted wool coat, interesting boots, quality fabrics, vintage jewelry and has a distinctive haircut.
He looks stylish in a way that's personal.
Where I live, that's a pretty rare sight, which is probably why I always notice it when it happens.
So my question is mainly for women who are attracted to men like this and who have actually met, dated, befriended or approached men like this:
-What's your honest assessment of them?
-What are they usually like as people?
-What jobs or careers do they tend to have?
-Are they generally more artistic, sensitive, emotionally aware, or am I stereotyping ?
-Do they tend to be more confident or more insecure than average men?
-How much of the aesthetic is genuine self-expression versus image management?
-And did the reality match the impression they gave from a distance?
I'm curious about patterns you've noticed, not whether stylish men are "better" or "worse," just what they're actually like once you get to know them.