Do you ever have times where so many people are saying you look good, hot and all the above but when you send out messages or try to have chats with all of these other apparently hot people, from the same comments they receive, you get no where? What do you end up thinking after that? Do you still feel good looking or do you feel less good looking? Is it a you thing or a them thing?
I have been trying out meeting guys for the past two years, not so often but met like 8. I had fun and all. I wanted to limit this but I wasn't able to control the urge to touch again. I am a top guy. I was trying to find some girl too but it's all futile. Does anybody face the same...?
I am a bit hesitant to meet new people too but this feels like a heavy boulder. I can't keep it all shut nor become a maniac.
I’ve lived a pretty conventional life up to this point, but lately, I’ve been feeling a strong wave of curiosity about trying new things and questioning my sexuality in general. I’m a regular, masculine guy just looking for some honest guidance and perspective from people who have been there.
For guys who figured this out a bit later in life, how did you safely navigate this transition and start exploring? I'm open-minded, eager to learn, and ready to figure this all out, but I could really use some direction on where to start.
I've lost a fair amount of weight and lately my erections are so strong that they hurt...is that normal??
Whether it comes from straight people or within the LGBTQ+ community, this kind of invalidation is still super common. What's your go-to response when someone drops that line on you? Do you try to educate them, use humor or just walk away?
As far as I know, he's a straight man. That's fine by me. I'm just here to enjoy the ride, and I think ever since my *special* dream about him and the fantasies I started having, I've been a lot more active in his department, which he highly appreciates.
We're 32 employees at this location, just 6 men (with three of them being in supervisor roles) so there aren't really that many male coworkers. I don't mind, the women in the company are funny as hell and gender is possibly one of the least important things about another person for me, but he told me he's pretty happy to finally have another guy to spend his shifts with, and I'm happy because I get to know him better. Win-win.
I think I'm past the point of being unsure about my orientarion. I mean, it couldn't be even more obvious. I'm pretty sure I have a crush on him. I love when I make jokes and he laughs at them, I love having discussions on various topics with him, I love witnessing his skills and honestly complimenting them or telling him kind things in general and seeing him smile.
AND I managed to invite myself to his house this weekend. We're gonna be drinking homebrewn cider in his garden and afterwards play video games together and go out and get some takeout, too. Gotta be careful I don't fall for him too hard, but I'm so looking forward to spending time with him, and getting to know the person he is out of work.