u/Automatic-Peace-1124

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Is my wife fully gone or am i over reading things

Me 21m my wife 20f been together 4 years married 1 years had some rocky problems me being mean her shutting out and no communication she had a family trip coming up months in advanced round trip but we’ve been arguing recently cause iv’e been trying to improve myself and not get angry when she doesn’t communicate or tell me anything of how she feels we’ve been going to couples therapy and generally try to improve however last night i threatened to divorce her out of pain a frustration she seemed uncomfortable obviously and huged and cuddled saying she loved me and everythings gonna be okay i texted her this morning apologizing say it was out of pain and frustration she replied saying its okay i love you so immensely and how we are good when i came home from work her suit case and bag was gone and she texted me saying shes safe and everything’s okay but she also said “We can’t be together anymore. I love you so very much and this is the hardest thing I have ever had to do, but the way you have been treating me is not fair and I need to do what is best for both of us” than later after i spammed texted her where did this come from whats going on she said “i don’t know” to me asking if this is confirmed that we are breaking up she left a lot of her stuff cleaned the house and still has her key shes staying at a friends house rn and she has that trip tm morning and her trip ends this saturday whats the likely hood of her coming back? If i give her space? No texting or calling and whats some advice
Whats weird is she still uses i love you a lot in the text and she replys every other text that i send

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u/Automatic-Peace-1124 — 10 days ago