u/Available-Loss-9810

I’ve seen lots of posts on here about people saying to not get back with an ex and that if it didn’t work out the first time it won’t work the second time. I disagree and believe it’s highly dependent on the situation and reason why you broke up of course.

It’s important to not I have no experience and my gf of 2.5 years left me 6 days ago because I stopped putting much effort into her and got comfortable. She warned me throughout the relationship that she wanted me to take more interest in her and that she gets upset that I don’t compliment anymore and even reposted 3 weeks before the breakup that I’m losing her slowly because of my actions. Even though she asked me to change I never did as I thought she would never leave me, fast forward to now and I regret how I treated her so much as I really do love her and want her back even though it may sound like I didn’t care about her in the relationship.

So back to my point, if she was to reach out to me and there was a chance of getting back together I absolutely would because I know that I would give her everything she deserves and make her the happiest girl alive. I would not have to see that she has changed or anything because she had no part to play in the breakup and it was entirely my actions that caused it.

I just want her back and hope she’ll give me another chance to prove I can give her everything she wants.

As the title says my gf of 2 and a half years broke up with me yesterday and It’s my fault. Her reasoning was she was unhappy in the relationship as I had stopped complimenting her and putting effort in, she said she felt as if I took no notice of her, these are all true, I got complacent but she would still be excited to talk to me after work but I would just sit playing PlayStation not really listening to her. She had warned me many times in the relationship that I’m losing her slowly and to put more effort in but I never did as I thought this day would never come. So yeah I take full responsibility that I made her do what she did. This is my first real relationship and I’m also autistic (not making excuses). I’m absolutely heartbroken, I’ve tried everything from begging for us to just take a break and see how it goes, to getting my mum to text her asking to give me another chance. Nothing has worked and she’s just asking for some space and time to heal, even though it’s hard I’m willing to give her time and space with the hope that we rekindle in the near future. I’m just worried that she will find someone else during that time and space I’m giving her.

Any advice would on what I can do to get her back, when or if I should slowly start breaking no contact, bear in mind it’s been 1 day since the breakup but I just need some opinions and advice as I’m really heartbroken right now.