u/AvailableAd8761

I’m new to OW and I was just wondering who is worth learning / possibly maining. I’m not a good tank player, so preferably non-tanks!

So me (M20) and my girlfriend (F19) recently moved into her moms (F39) house, it was her moms idea. We all agreed that I would send her mom the money for rent, and she would send it to the landlord until it was in our name, and in return we would keep all her stuff until they found another house.

But a few months before we moved in, her mom was rushing us to get the money and move in faster. Once we finally got the money and were all packed up, we told her we were ready and so was she.

June 1st is the date we agreed to move, once we got there and started bringing all of our stuff, they put everything of theirs into one bedroom, which I found kind of odd because there was only one bedroom but there was a garage they could’ve put them in. After they left and I sent her the money, we started unpacking our stuff and slept in the living room.

A week or two pass and the landlord stops by saying she hasn’t received the rent money for this month, we we’re confused because I sent the exact amount for rent, and half of rent for damage deposit. I showed the landlord that I sent the money and she was confused because she hasn’t gotten it.

We then put two and two together and found out she took my money for herself. We had 4 days to come up with $1200, but we sent every dollar we had to her mom. But you can’t really blame us for trusting her, we had no reason to not trust her about this because she hasn’t done anything to make us not trust her.

We messaged her mom asking about that money, and saying we need it back for rent. She was saying how she needs the last half of the damage deposit before she can send the money, but like I said we already sent one months worth of rent to her and half of dd which even the landlord said one months rent is only what she needs.

She then started going off about how my girlfriend always asked family for money when she was younger and hasn’t paid them back. And my girlfriend was trying to explain to her that it was my money that she took not my girlfriends, but her mom said “don't mean shit fuck ur a couple remember that's how shit goes. Get a job n pay back those people or don't message me about paying (me) back cause that's how many other peoples like I said my friends and families.” I don’t think she remembers the actual reason we sent the money. Then she started saying how ONE TIME she bought my brother munchies and we owed her back because “I didn’t have to buy him munchies” but we didn’t even ask her too, she offered.

We ended up getting enough the next day, with help from my family after we explained what happened. We told her mom that if we don’t get the money back we are going to sell her stuff so we can make back the amount I gave to her for rent. She then started saying “go ahead sell my shit cause with the receipts and prices I paid you’d be paying me back cause you’d be charged for selling over even”. We weren’t going to sell her stuff, because we didn’t want to be like that towards her, it was us trying to get our money back. We also told her she isn’t getting her stuff back until she pays us back the money.

It’s been almost a year since all that has happened, and she still hasn’t gave back my money, and we still have her stuff in the garage. Her mom has been using her siblings against her, saying “you can’t see them till you breakup with (me)” and “they don’t want to see you because of the stuff you pulled”.

It’s been almost a year since my girlfriend has seen her siblings, and her mom is still blaming us for it. Her mom also turned majority of her family against us, but we’re slowly getting in contact with them and letting them know the actual truth. We found out that her mom claimed we kicked her out of the house and stole their stuff. But once we showed the messages she was sending and the proof of me sending the money, they started to actually believe us.

Do we just give up on waiting for the money and sell her things?