AITAH for not wanting to hang out with my GF’s teammates
I am visiting my girlfriend in the town where she recently moved to play rugby. On my first day, she had a game and we all went out (with her teammates and friends) to a bar afterwards. She explained to me before that some of her teammates are into her and have flirted with her and said things like “if you are ever looking for a third” and “please make a public service announcement when you break up” . She is very loyal and I trust her. But I am annoyed at her teammates. They even went to the lengths of squeezing her shoulders as they walked by when I was sitting right there (might be a friendly move though so I’ll let it slide)
I know that my girlfriend is trying to fit in with her teammates and she loves them all. But I am kind of annoyed that she won’t take an extra step to put her teammates in their place.
We learned this morning that the same flirty teammate started a rumor that me and my girlfriend don’t like each other very much after seeing us at the bar and said that we seemed very distant. I just like to respect my girlfriend’s space when she is with her friends. I let her talk to people. I don’t tag along in every conversation and we are not a big PDA couple anyways. But hearing that the teammate said that about us really upset me.
TLDR: said teammate invited us to watch a baseball game with her and some others to which i said No I don’t want to hang out with girl-which annoyed my girlfriend. She said that she wants to hang out with her friends and I understand that. I really don’t want to mess with her flow-especially if I’m coming to visit her in her own space. I however am just generally uncomfortable with the situation.
My girlfriend keeps saying that all these girls flirting with her are really hot but that she loves me a lot-especially for my personality-which honestly hurts like damn. I don’t want her calling other girls attractive to my face. And I don’t want to hang out with everyone that’s in love with her and praying on our downfall.