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I think my boyfriend is cheating

Hi everyone, to start I would like to mention in the past I had a boyfriend who was cheating on me for the entire relationship and it kind of destroyed my confidence and ability to trust anyone else. Recently I went on a business trip and my partner was alone for the 4 days I was gone. I’ve gone through his phone in the past and seen some things and approached him about it and it turned out he was in fact cheating on me that time. Since then I haven’t found any concrete evidence. When I came home I went through his phone again and everything, from text message, to calls, FaceTimes, and internet history has been wiped. I found an account in his passwords app and it was created around this time last year for an anonymous gay video chat site. I want to approach him about it but every time I bring up my concerns he gets mad and it grows into a fight. I’ve been spiraling about this for a few hours now and I’m not sure if I’m jumping to conclusions but I can feel it in my gut that something is off. For context I’m 25M and he’s 21M.

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u/Aware-Signature-2057 — 6 days ago

Is my boyfriend cheating?

Hi everyone, to start I would like to mention in the past I had a boyfriend who was cheating on me for the entire relationship and it kind of destroyed my confidence and ability to trust anyone else. Recently I went on a business trip and my partner was alone for the 4 days I was gone. I’ve gone through his phone in the past and seen some things and approached him about it and it turned out he was in fact cheating on me that time. Since then I haven’t found any concrete evidence. When I came home I went through his phone again and everything, from text message, to calls, FaceTimes, and internet history has been wiped. I found an account in his passwords app and it was created around this time last year for an anonymous gay video chat site. I want to approach him about it but every time I bring up my concerns he gets mad and it grows into a fight. I’ve been spiraling about this for a few hours now and I’m not sure if I’m jumping to conclusions but I can feel it in my gut that something is off. I just am not sure if how I’m feeling is valid or if I’m just overreacting about things.

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u/Aware-Signature-2057 — 6 days ago