u/Awkward-Tap2472

Sziasztok!

Találtam egy lehetőséget, ahol álláskeresőként lehet jelentkezni államilag támogatott angol képzésre a Járási Hivatal Foglalkoztatási Osztályán keresztül. (FAR rendszerben fent lévő iskola).

A lényeg: 7 hónapos középfokú (B2) képzés, napi ∼4-5 óra tanulás otthoni csomagokkal + heti Zoom-os beszédórák. Mellette havi támogatást is adnak és alkalmi bejelentéssel lehet dolgozni.

A feltétel viszont az, hogy a végén sikeres nyelvvizsgát kell tenni (ITOLC), különben vissza kell fizetni a kapott támogatást.
Volt már valaki ilyenben? Mennyire nehéz így B2-t letenni?
Sulis szinten jó voltam angolból, olvasni most is tudok, filmeket is értem nagyjából, de megszólalni alig tudok, teljesen blokkolok. Olyan mintha elfelejtettem volna az aktív részt.

Közben lenne egy alkalmi melóm, egyik héten 2 nap, másikon 4 nap. Szerintetek kivitelezhető meló mellett ez a napi 4-5 óra tanulás 7 hónapig?
Előre is köszi ha megosztjátok a tapasztalatot!

Hi everyone,
First of all, please forgive me if something is unclear, as English is not my native language. Please help me get SP back…

The story: I met him 3 years ago and I really liked him, but at that time something was just starting to develop between him and another girl. I eventually lost contact with the group of friends through whom I knew SP. After 3 years, he contacted me again, and it turned out that he had broken up with his girlfriend.

I took it as a sign. Everything started out perfectly, but then something happened and he began saying contradictory things. Eventually, he told me that he wasn’t over his ex. He said he didn’t want to get back together with her, but that he needed time. At one point he said he had started developing feelings for me and that he missed me, and then the next moment he would say that he felt nothing at all.

He ended things with me, and after that we didn’t speak for 3 weeks. Then I called him because of some rumor I had heard, and we started talking again. I tried to be a little more distant with him. We met up, I went over to his place, and he said things like I was the only person who could make him laugh like that. Then he asked me something personal and emotional. I started opening up to him, but he suddenly stood up and started getting dressed. I got upset with him because he wasn’t paying attention to me, and I had him drive me home.

After that, I sent him a very long message about my feelings. It was a bit humiliating for me to write it, but this whole situation was hurting me and I couldn’t understand what was going on in his head. He never replied, which was something he had never done before.
I sent that message on Sunday, June 14. Then on June 20, my friend and I went to the beach, and SP was there too. He acted as if he hadn’t seen me, but I know he did because we made eye contact.
Yesterday was his birthday, and I sent him a message. He replied:

“Thank you, that’s sweet of you to remember ❤️. Please don’t be angry with me. I know what I did was awful. I shouldn’t have treated you that way, and I’m very sorry. You didn’t deserve anything bad.”
Later, a girl viewed my Instagram story, so I sent him a screenshot and asked who she was. He asked why I was asking. Then I told him she had viewed my story, and he replied, “Women can be so intense.”

We started arguing a little about it. He said she was someone from his past and that they hadn’t seen each other in a long time, but I couldn’t believe him. The important part is that I ended up confronting him about how much his behavior had hurt me. He said that he had thought a lot about it since then, that he would never treat anyone like that again, and that it really bothered him that I had become a victim of his attempt to get over someone else.

He also admitted that he hadn’t been honest when he said that he missed me, and that there was no point in continuing to talk about it anymore.
I replied:
“You’re right. I think it’s pointless too if only one of us misses the other.”
(I was referring to myself, of course.)
He started typing something after that, but never sent it, and he hasn’t messaged me since.
Please help me. What should I do? 😭 When I was with him, I truly felt like he wanted me, but something happened that made him unable to let go of his ex…