u/AyabaFola

Being in your 40s is a strange experience. Everyone your age seems to be living in completely different timelines.

Some people are still single and may never marry. Others are up at 3 a.m. changing diapers. Some are dating people in their mid-20s, while others are celebrating 20 years of marriage.

Half of them look like they’re still in their late 20s, while the other half look like life has seriously tested them. Some could pass for 30, others for 60, every version of adulthood is on full display in your early 40s.

And then there’s you… just trying to become one of those mysteriously healthy older people who seem to have life quietly figured out.