u/BackgroundSecure5329

Just spoke with support because out of the 20-odd matches I have, only 3 of them were ones I actually liked. Not only this, but the app is automatically forcing me to instantly ask everyone for nudes/private images. After dealing with the roundabout of the AI support, I was helped by someone. I had already disabled auto message and the other automation features. the conversation is as follows:

OP:
The app is also auto-requesting people’s private photos?

Support:
Regarding your second concern, you are currently part of a test where, when a user is liked, an automatic Private Card request is sent. At the moment, there’s no option to turn off this feature.

I’d like to note that this is not an official change but part of a test we recently launched. Whether this feature remains will depend on the test results, which is why we highly value and take into account all user feedback.

I’ll be right back to update you on your initial concern.

Thank you for your patience, OP. After checking thoroughly, it looks like this is related to the Curated Batch feature.

Unfortunately, there may be times when you will not notice that you accidentally enabled this feature. If that happens, a batch of Curated Likes will be sent on your behalf.

Of course, you can absolutely prevent this from happening in the future; just be on the lookout the next time the screen pops up so these likes aren’t accidentally sent again.

 

OP:
I have made absolutely sure not to select curated batch, because I have no desire to like profiles I haven’t seen.

With respect, I can also certainly say that this test-feature is not going to be one people want. Creating a dedicated feature curated to asking for private photos without even saying hello is insulting and gross. It’s also completely unreasonable that I should be forced to play the role of such behavior and not have the option to opt out of the test.

I appreciate you looking into this but I *will* be deleting my account moving forward.

I want to say that, while I have been explicitly careful to not touch the Curated Batch notifications, I am humble enough to admit when I am wrong. It's entirely possible I selected yes without knowing to one of the prompts, but I also feel like 3:20 is a questionable ratio for it to have been only one batch. I've only used this app for about 5 hours and installed it two days ago.
EVEN IF I accidentally accepted a Curated batch, that's still 20 people I've now suddenly requested nudes from without even greeting or talking to. I feel disgusted, and looking through other reddit posts, their moderator did confirm elsewhere that this test-feature is only disabled for accounts marked as Ace or Aro. It shouldn't be a feature at all, and we should if nothing else be able to decline participation in the test batch. Poor design choice, poor execution.

Just spoke with support because out of the 20-odd matches I have, only 3 of them were ones I actually liked. Not only this, but the app is automatically forcing me to instantly ask everyone for nudes/private images. After dealing with the roundabout of the AI support, I was helped by someone. I had already disabled auto message and the other automation features. the conversation is as follows:

OP:
The app is also auto-requesting people’s private photos?

Support:
Regarding your second concern, you are currently part of a test where, when a user is liked, an automatic Private Card request is sent. At the moment, there’s no option to turn off this feature.

I’d like to note that this is not an official change but part of a test we recently launched. Whether this feature remains will depend on the test results, which is why we highly value and take into account all user feedback.

I’ll be right back to update you on your initial concern.

Thank you for your patience, OP. After checking thoroughly, it looks like this is related to the Curated Batch feature.

Unfortunately, there may be times when you will not notice that you accidentally enabled this feature. If that happens, a batch of Curated Likes will be sent on your behalf.

Of course, you can absolutely prevent this from happening in the future; just be on the lookout the next time the screen pops up so these likes aren’t accidentally sent again.

 

OP:
I have made absolutely sure not to select curated batch, because I have no desire to like profiles I haven’t seen.

With respect, I can also certainly say that this test-feature is not going to be one people want. Creating a dedicated feature curated to asking for private photos without even saying hello is insulting and gross. It’s also completely unreasonable that I should be forced to play the role of such behavior and not have the option to opt out of the test.

I appreciate you looking into this but I *will* be deleting my account moving forward.

I want to say that, while I have been explicitly careful to not touch the Curated Batch notifications, I am humble enough to admit when I am wrong. It's entirely possible I selected yes without knowing to one of the prompts, but I also feel like 3:20 is a questionable ratio for it to have been only one batch. I've only used this app for about 5 hours and installed it two days ago.
EVEN IF I accidentally accepted a Curated batch, that's still 20 people I've now suddenly requested nudes from without even greeting or talking to. I feel disgusted, and looking through other reddit posts, a moderator for this subreddit did confirm elsewhere that this test-feature is only disabled (again, automatically and with no notice to anyone) for accounts marked as Ace or Aro. It shouldn't be a feature at all, and we should if nothing else be able to decline participation in the test batch. Poor design choice, poor execution.