r/transfurs

So yeah, it’s me, Sushi again.

I’m struggling with this hard and could use some help.

So firstly, since I’m not sure when, I’ve been feeling female. College-ish is when it kicked into high gear. Though I also wore my mom’s shoes growing up according to her. I’m not saying this as “symptoms to be trans”, but just stating my experiences.

I’m a furry. I use she/her with furries.

But the thing is I can’t commit to transitioning. It’s a case of “what if I regret it?”, “what if I get hate?”, “what if I’m not accepted by the community?”.

I get times where i just think “I NEED a pair of breasts of my own”, or “why can’t I have a vagina?” but even so despite that, that worry of “what if I’m not trans?” or “what if I am?” are both there. Being trans ISN’T a bad thing, but I just worry and overthink. If I’m not trans, I feel like an imposter but if I am, there’s a lot of potential legal changes and legal issues (in the wake of Trump making all his gender EO’s).

Is using she her because I feel safer with it, okay?

Context: she her will and has up to this point only been with furries. I use he him with family, coworkers, non furry friends etc.

I just feel kind of imposter-ish and I’d like measurement if using she her but not transitioning is OK.

Worriedly,

-Sushi