I am replacing my ceramic plates and bowls with my grandmas sets. A decent amount of mine has chips in them so I’m not sure what to do with them. I’ve had them for 14 years, got them second hand at a yard sale.
Suggestions appreciated.
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My husband is obsessed with sports, mainly football and hockey. Right now because hockey just ended, he isn’t using DIRECTV for much. We have the sports package and half the time, the teams we want are blacked out. I’ve been looking into YouTube and Hulu because they both have live sports options but would like a better perspective on it. He has bought Sunday ticket the last two years on top of having the DIRECTV sports pack.
My husband’s favorite teams are in multiple states so I need to make sure I can get at least the Bills, the Penguins, penn state, and the Braves.
Edit: I have peacock and prime already. I have espn+ through DTV but will get that on its own if I switch. My husband is a veteran so he got the deal on Sunday ticket. I live in Michigan so there isn’t much overlap in market games. I was thinking YTTV for Big 10.
So it’s a very long story like I’m sure most of yours are but it boils down to my mother and I have had a difficult relationship for years. She pretty much only has difficulty relationships with everyone.
So in December, my mom moved in with my grandma to help her out more because she (grandma) was dying from terminal cancer. I visited during New years, then my sister came up from New years until a week or two after grandma passed in middle of January. The day she passed, I went back to visit to help out and get things in order. My sister is a lawyer so my grandma signed everything over to her before passing, the car, the house, etc. which really pissed my mom off.
My sister was trying to decide what she was going to do with the house, keep it or sell it, but didn’t want to make any rash decisions. It was the middle of winter and my mom’s house didn’t have a work heater at the time so my sister let her stay there for a time. Eventually my sister went back in February and March and was tired of dealing mom that she kicked her out because she wasn’t abiding by the roles of keeping the house clean.
My grandmas doing wishes were for us all to come together for Memorial Day and have a picnic and scatter her ashes. My mom knew about it but didn’t come. I was visiting for the week and didn’t hear from her the whole time. She didn’t message me until 430 am the morning I left asking why I was giving her the silent treatment. It’s been a week and I haven’t responded. This is at least the third time this year she has sent me a text saying something kind of out of line. We had talked a couple of weeks before my visit about different things but then she got to the real reason she called: to bitch about my sister.
She started with asking if I had talked to her, I said no even though I had, but she didn’t need to know that. Then said “I know you don’t want to be in the middle of it…but…” and then complained about my sister.
Do I have tried for many years to set this boundary with my mom and sister because I’ve told my sister the same thing but at least when I get my sister’s side, it seems more accurate. My mom Is a pathological liar and also plays the victim. When I’m with my mom and my older brother, they only complain about everyone else which makes me question if my mom complains about me too when I’m not around.
Ive gotten advice from multiple people, some saying try, again, to tell her how you feel, others saying it’s not worth it. So is ignoring, it worth it?