u/Background_Emu_8819

Me 14FTM and my ex 14F were in a relationship (online), but it went toxic very fast

She didn't respect my boundaries at all like sending me things that reminded me of people who traumatized me, when I clearly told her multiple times not to. On our 1month anniversary I decided to break up because I just couldn't date someone who clearly wasn't for me. We kept arguing all the time and I kept getting annoyed at her for everything.

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So, when I broke up, I blocked her, then I felt bad. So I unblocked her, just to tell her why and move on, but she begged me she would change and just wanted us to be friends because she wanted to keep interacting with me as I made her discover a part of herself.

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She is now saying things like "I'm gonna kms", "whenever i made you uncomfortable I cut myself", "if you get into a relationship with them i'll be in severe depression"

"I feel like i was never built for someones love and affection in the first place.. I want to have you as my partner but i keep overstepping boundaries"

And saying "Why play with my feelings when im already being held by a string" when I said I didn't want to be in a couple with her ever again.

I think she's very toxic, but i'd like some insights from people ^^

EDIT : she just said "i cut myself lol"

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u/Background_Emu_8819 — 2 days ago